She Lied To Her Coworker About A Friend Not Being Single Because She Believes They Would Be A Horrible Match
This young woman has a female coworker who has shown some romantic interest in one of her friends named John. In fact, her coworker even asked if John was single.
While he is not currently in a relationship, though, she believes that her coworker and John would be far from a match made in heaven.
For starters, her coworker is what she calls a “party girl” who is always talking about the guys she has “fun” with. At the same time, her coworker constantly complains about how she cannot find a guy to tie the knot with.
“And she acknowledges that the guys she’s having fun with are not marriage material,” she added.
Now, her coworker has gone on some dates with men who were apparently on the hunt for a serious relationship. But she claims that, with those guys, her coworker acts like an entirely different person.
More specifically, she revealed how her coworker pretends that she is a “home girl.” Plus, her coworker will blatantly lie about frequently having one-night stands.
Her friend John, on the other hand, is the complete opposite. First of all, he is much less party-oriented, and she just does not think he and her coworker would work together.
That’s why she wound up lying to her coworker about John’s relationship status a few days ago.
It all began when she and her four friends were out one night, and she ended up bumping into her coworker.
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At that point, she just said hello and engaged in some small talk before introducing her to her friend group.
Afterward, she and her coworker went their separate ways. But, it later became clear that her coworker had her eyes on John. That’s because the next day at work, her coworker wound up asking if John was single and if she could get them together.
Despite John being single, though, her first instinct was to claim that he was taken. Regardless, that didn’t stop her coworker from asking a ton of questions about his “relationship”– including how long it had been going on and if it was “solid.”
Still, she didn’t want to entertain the conversation any longer, so she wound up claiming that she didn’t have a lot of details since she and John don’t hang out that often– which was another lie. Afterward, she continued deflecting the topic before just telling her coworker that she had to go.
And at the time, she thought she did the right thing protecting John because she genuinely believed her coworker would be a horrible match for him.
“I have no doubt that she’d be able to weasel into his life if given a chance, as she’s pretty attractive,” she said.
However, she is still worried that somehow, her lie is going to blow up in her face. So now, she’s not sure whether being dishonest with her coworker about John’s relationship status was the wrong thing to do.
Is it strange that her coworker was asking if John’s relationship was “solid?” Regardless, do you think she did the right thing by trying to protect John? Or should she have told the truth, and if her coworker pursued him, allowed him to make the decision himself? What would you have done?
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