Her Boyfriend Took Her Out To Dinner Last Night, So He Feels That Means He’s Excluded From Having To Do Household Chores Today

LIGHTFIELD STUDIOS - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
LIGHTFIELD STUDIOS - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This 32-year-old woman has a boyfriend who is a year younger than she is, and her boyfriend just ended up moving in with her.

She has never before lived with anyone that she has dated, so she’s having a tough time gauging whether or not she’s being a little too sensitive about something her boyfriend did today.

Now, she and her boyfriend each have full-time jobs, but she works nearly 2 hours longer than he does every single day.

Back before they lived together, any time that he would sleep over at her place, she would wash his clothes for him.

And, when she spent the night at her boyfriend’s place, she would end up helping him clean around his house.

Anyway, earlier today, she woke up to find their place a complete disaster, and her boyfriend had put his laundry in the washer, but he didn’t touch her laundry.

He did say sorry, but she reminded him that he needs to begin helping her out with chores around their house because it’s not fair for him to only take care of his own tasks.

Well, he didn’t respond positively to her saying that to him.

“He gets all moody and tells me that he made me a coffee and took me out for dinner yesterday and walks out the door,” she explained.

LIGHTFIELD STUDIOS – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

“Yes, I’m very grateful he makes me a cup of coffee every once in a while and takes me out to dinner, but surely that isn’t some quid pro quo to not help around the house??”

Her boyfriend is really a great guy, but he can be utterly selfish, and he gets completely defensive when she does try to address the topic of household chores with him.

“I tried to explain it in a nice way, and he just gets moody and leaves, and it leaves me infuriated because I want to be able to express my concerns/issues without being painted like I’m some nag of a girlfriend,” she added.

How do you think she can finally get her boyfriend to see her side on this?

You can read the original post on Reddit here.

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