Her Sister Is Pregnant With Her Seventh Child, And She Told Her She’s Not Moving In To Be Her Free Babysitter
This 19-year-old girl currently lives at home with her parents.
She is hoping to move out on her own in the near future, but she doesn’t make a lot of money at her current job, so it’s been difficult to save up the money she needs to afford a place.
Her sister, 32, is currently pregnant with her seventh child. She already has four sons and two daughters, and she is currently married to her husband, 34.
Two weeks ago, during a family dinner, her sister announced her seventh pregnancy, and while the rest of her family was thrilled with the news, she didn’t feel the same excitement.
In the past, her sister has asked her to help take care of her nieces and nephews each time her sister has given birth to another child.
One time, she missed an exam because she was taking care of her nieces and nephews.
As a tradition, her family regularly gets together at her parents’ house for dinner. Her sister usually doesn’t join them, but two weeks ago was the first time in a while that her sister showed up for dinner, and the family was pretty surprised to see her.
Before hearing the news of her sister’s latest pregnancy, she was glad to be able to spend time with her nieces and nephews, whom her sister brought with her to their parents’ house.
Unfortunately, she never got along with her sister’s husband and didn’t think he was a good guy.
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“He was too childish and didn’t do anything. I would tell my sister he wasn’t good for her, but she told me to mind my business, so I left it alone,” she said.
For this particular dinner, tons of family members who she hadn’t seen in a long time had dropped by, and before eating, everyone was hanging out and catching up.
Eventually, they all helped themselves to the food that was neatly set out on long white tables, and they gathered in the living room to sit down and eat.
“My sister told everyone she had big news to tell, and everyone wanted to know. My sister sat next to our mother and held her hand,” she explained.
“My sister proudly said she was pregnant, loud enough for everyone to hear. Everyone congratulated her. I, on the other hand, was furious because my sister is the type of woman to have kids back-to-back and not give her body a rest.”
Every time her sister was pregnant, she would call her to come over to her house to take care of the children because her sister’s husband didn’t pitch in.
She can’t understand why her sister continues to have children.
On one occasion, she said to her sister that she’s so young and she has tons of time later in life to have children, so she doesn’t have to rush. In response, her sister said that she enjoys having children “for her husband.”
At the time of her sister’s announcement, she didn’t want to be mean or negative. Instead of expressing her honest concerns and frustrations, she gave her sister a hug and said that she was overjoyed at the news.
“She held my hand and told me that now I could be close to this baby and should move in with her so I can be closer to the kids,'” she shared.
“I know this doesn’t sound believable, and trust me, when she said it, I couldn’t believe it. I felt like a babysitter, so I told her, ‘I’m not moving in to be a free babysitter. Stop having kids and then asking me to watch them.”
Her mother overheard the conversation and scolded her for being “rude.” However, she’s not sure if she was wrong for rejecting her sister’s idea of her moving in to take care of her nieces and nephews.
Do you think she was wrong for what she said to her sister?
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