Her Husband Went To Thailand, Slept With Another Girl, And Now Wants To Leave Her And Move There To Be With This Girl
This 25-year-old girl and her 29-year-old husband got married a bit more than a year ago, and they originally met online.
She eventually moved to the state her husband lived in to be with him, and then they made a move back to her hometown so they could afford to buy a home.
Now one of her husband’s friends moved to Thailand two years ago, and her husband recently decided to go there on vacation to see his friend.
She wasn’t able to make it because she had school, but right before her husband left for his trip, he told her he would like some more freedom in their marriage, basically to explore other girls.
They fought a lot while he was in Thailand about this very topic, and she felt extremely hurt while he was away.
She spent a ton of time sobbing at home alone while her husband was having fun. The entire time he was in Thailand, all he did was say he desperately wants to move there.
Her husband wouldn’t talk about anything else, and it terrified her because it did not seem like he planned to include her in his move.
Her husband’s friend owns a business and made her husband an offer. Basically, he would make her husband a partner in his business and give him a percentage of the company profits, so he wouldn’t have to worry about money if he made the move to Thailand.
“I told him I wouldn’t mind moving, but I’d like to visit to see the place first before making a permanent decision,” she explained.
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“At the end of the day, I love him, and I would go to the ends of the earth to be with him. He got back home 2 days ago, and last night he was acting weird, being secretive, [and] sneaking off to talk on the phone. I overheard some of the things he said (“I need to make a decision, and someone’s heart is going to get broken”), and I interrupted his phone conversation and told him he needs to come talk to me now.”
“Turns out a few things have been happening. He told me he has been deciding whether he is going to move with me or without me. He met someone that he slept with in Thailand and is still talking to her daily. He said something like, “I don’t want to bring you across the world for us to be in an unhappy marriage.” He also asked if I’d want him to stay if it means he won’t be happy.”
Before her husband took this trip to Thailand, she was the happiest girl on the planet. She figured she was going to grow old alongside her husband and spend her entire life with him.
Her husband just told her that he is selfish and wants more out of life, and he also wants things he won’t be able to live with if they stay together.
Her husband then mentioned to her that he cannot be the kind of man she deserves. She just replied that he committed to her and married her, so he needs to try to be the husband she needs.
Her husband has said to her that he will require some time to think about his choices and that he doesn’t want to say anything further to her until he makes his final choice.
She replied to her husband that he was making the worst mistake of his life and that they have made so many sacrifices for one another.
They own their own home, they have lives together, and she said that if he would like to leave her, he will regret this decision.
She thinks her husband has a ridiculous crush on the girl in Thailand he slept with, and this is driving his decision to leave her and move there.
She is not giving up and permitting him to ruin their marriage.
“I told him I think that when he thinks on this for longer, he will realize that leaving me is a huge mistake,” she said.
“The issue now is that I don’t know if our relationship will be the same. I know he slept with someone else, I know he might believe that living this “lifestyle” that he wants (he hasn’t really explained what he means by that) could be more important than our marriage.”
“He honestly seems like a different person. He said this trip changed him a lot, and I can see that. Before, he would move mountains for me. He said he still loves me and always will, but he doesn’t know if he loves me in the same way anymore. I asked him to stop talking to this other woman while we are trying to fix our relationship. He said he doesn’t think he can do that. He said she’s still his friend. I responded, how are we going to attempt to mend things when you have some other woman in your ear?”
She’s left feeling broken by this, and like she has an enormous hole in her chest. She desperately wants to mend their marriage, and she promised to do that when she stood up there and said her vows on their wedding day.
She feels incredibly betrayed and like her marriage is already over, and there is nothing she can do.
She still is in love with her husband, but she hates him at the exact same time. He husband has stated that he will ensure she’s financially taken care of so that she can continue living in her home.
“I just feel like my whole world has been tilted,” she continued. “I’m not sure what to do or whether to just move on. I hate becoming another statistic. And I’m still positive that he will regret this and want me back later.”
“How do I try to fix this? How would I even go about trying to fix things? We are planning to see a marriage counselor soon.”
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