The Last Time He Went Away With Friends, His Girlfriend Blew Up His Phone And Accused Him Of Cheating, So He Said That If She Ruins His Upcoming Trip Again, Then He’s Breaking Up With Her
This guy has been dating his girlfriend for about two years. But last year, when he made plans to go away for a weekend and visit his college friends– who he hadn’t seen in over a year and a half– she was a nightmare to deal with.
“It was something I was really looking forward to,” he recalled.
However, the morning after he left, his girlfriend would not stop blowing up his phone. Plus, she even accused him of cheating and started an argument over what he thought was “nothing.”
Her antics wound up ruining his whole weekend, too, since he needed to cut his trip short. But then, as soon as he arrived home, his girlfriend just kept apologizing and claiming that her behavior was tied to insecurities since she had been cheated on in the past.
Now, he did forgive her at the time since they are obviously still together today. More recently, though, he made another plan to go away with his same friends for three nights in just a couple of weeks.
“And I’m excited for it since I haven’t seen them since then,” he said.
Still, his girlfriend has begun claiming that she’s really going to miss him, and it’s started to make him quite worried.
That’s why he decided to make it clear that she would not be allowed to behave the same way that she did last time.
When he said that, his girlfriend acted like she didn’t know what he was talking about. So, he re-explained what happened on his last trip and also gave his girlfriend an ultimatum.
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“I mentioned that last time I went away with friends, she deliberately started arguments and that if she did the same thing again, we would be over,” he revealed.
Well, his girlfriend didn’t understand that and accused him of bringing up their past issues for no reason.
He just doubled down, though, and tried to tell his girlfriend that he was really looking forward to his weekend away with friends. So, if she blew him up again and accused him of cheating, he would break up with her.
His girlfriend wasn’t okay with that, either, and claimed that he was out of line for giving her an ultimatum. She believes it seems like he doesn’t trust her.
“And she said I shouldn’t have brought it up,” he vented.
This has now left him wondering if giving his girlfriend an ultimatum about his weekend away with friends was justified or really so unreasonable.
Doesn’t he have a right to enforce boundaries with his girlfriend? Does it sound like he doesn’t trust his girlfriend, or his girlfriend doesn’t trust him? What would you have done if you were in his shoes?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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