He Was His Wife’s Rebound And Worried About Her Cheating, And Now His Nightmare Is Coming True
This 28-year-old man admits that he has always struggled with trust issues. He and his 29-year-old wife first began dating a decade ago, and he knows he was her rebound turned into a relationship.
They ended up being in a long-distance relationship, and his wife wound up sending steamy messages to other guys.
He and his wife were able to overcome that issue, and they went on to get married and have two children together.
Although he and his wife, by all means, moved on from her infidelity, he has always had a bad feeling that he would never be good enough for her.
Sadly, it looks like his gut instinct was right because his nightmare about his wife cheating on him all over again is now coming true.
Lately, he realized his wife has been adding random strangers on social media to talk to, and when he asked her about this, she argued that he meets a lot of people online through his video games, and this is her same way of going about making some new friends.
He didn’t find that suspicious at all, as they really struggled with their social lives after the pandemic, and it was tough on the two of them.
Ever since he asked his wife about the random strangers she was talking to on social media, she has been giving him digs about attempting to catch her doing something bad.
This really made him feel “on edge,” and all of his old feelings about her cheating on him so long ago came flooding right back.
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“Don’t look for things if you don’t want to find them,” he explained. “I opened Snapchat. One guy’s [conversation] was [13 pages long], from what I could tell, but she called me her ex-husband.”
“That’s a red flag. I keep looking, [but] it’s not adding up; there’s another [conversation] I know she’s been having, and I can’t find it.”
“Well, turns out she hid the [conversation]. And that’s when I found out she’s [been sending steamy messages and photos] to some random guy on Snapchat.”
After finding the evidence of his wife cheating, he felt confused about what to do. A large piece of him wants to just forgive her, forget the whole thing, and carry on with their lives.
He’s been with his wife for ten entire years and has two kids with her, which he’s hesitant to throw away.
However, another piece of him wants to gather the courage to kick his wife out of the house and instantly file for divorce.
“But then it’s a toss-up on whether I get to see my kids or not,” he said. “I want to do what’s best for them at the end of the day. I have snapped photos of the evidence and backed it up several times, just in case.”
What do you think he should do?
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