His Girlfriend Had An Affair Baby Just To Get Revenge On Him
For the last three years, this 27-year-old man has been dating his 29-year-old girlfriend Mary. He and Mary have a 5-month-old son together named Jake, and he has a 6-year-old son from a previous relationship named Alex.
Alex is his entire world, and he admits that he probably would no longer be here if it wasn’t for Alex, even though he can be difficult to parent.
Now, he was never with Alex’s biological mom, and they spent 8 months co-parenting before Alex’s mom gave him full custody of Alex.
Back when he met Mary, he was honest with her about Alex, and Mary never had a problem with him being a single dad.
When Mary met Alex, she was excellent with him, and he never dreamed that Mary could hate the little boy.
Then, Mary ended up getting pregnant even though they weren’t trying to have a baby, but they were both elated to be parents together.
Several weeks ago, while Alex and Jake were sleeping, he and Mary were about to put on one of his favorite movies.
Mary left her phone on their couch and then got up to head to the kitchen, so she asked him to bring her phone to her.
As he picked up Mary’s phone, he saw a text from a guy named Gerald, and the message said something like, “I love that color on him.”
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“It wasn’t incriminating in the slightest,” he explained. “I handed her the phone and asked, “Who’s Gerald?” And she looked so sick.”
“I wasn’t even accusing her of anything, I had just never heard the name before. But immediately, she began to apologize.”
“I didn’t know what she was talking about, but it was starting to sound like she was describing an affair. I started crying. She started crying. Our voices escalated, so then the baby started crying, so she went to go take care of him.”
Mary later revealed to him that she had an affair baby just to get revenge on him, as she was upset that he already had a child with another woman.
Mary desperately wished it had been her to give him his first child, and so she planned to have a baby with another man to get back at him.
So, Mary went out and found Gerald, who had a similar hair color to him, and she slept with Gerald until she wound up pregnant with Alex.
That’s right, he thought he was Alex’s biological father, but he’s not. Gerald is. Mary told him he was Alex’s father, but she lied to his face.
As for Gerald, he was completely aware of Mary’s plan, and Mary has met up with Gerald before to let him spend time with Alex, and she sends him text updates about Alex too.
After finding all of this out, he was sick to his stomach. He believes a part of Mary wanted him to see that text from Gerald so he could finally learn the truth.
He doesn’t regret having Alex at all, but he certainly regrets meeting Mary. When he learned Mary’s deep, dark secret, all the love he felt for her died at that moment.
He’s been feeling numb and disconnected ever since, and Mary has been distant and cruel to him. He’s currently sleeping on the couch while trying to figure out what to do.
“The worst part is that I thought my son looked so much like me,” he said. “But he’s not even mine. She was apologetic at first, but now she’s telling me that it makes us even.”
“She doesn’t even care that I sit and stare at the ground for hours. She’s become so cold and rude to me now. She doesn’t care at all that she’s hurt me or this family.”
“I can’t believe I brought my boy into this. I can’t believe I had another boy with her. I can’t leave him with her, she’s insane. I feel like I deserve this, but what was my sin? Having a child before I knew of her existence?”
He hasn’t told his family or Mary’s family the truth about Alex, and he feels like he’s grieving. What Mary did hurts him so badly, and she doesn’t care at all. Mary keeps saying he needs to just get over it and be a man.
What do you think he should do?
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