Her family has been trashing talking her sister while trying to force her sister to give up the name.
They’re even going around saying her sister probably has a horrendous name picked out, and that’s her reason for keeping it under wraps.
She’s gone to bat for her sister every single time the issue comes up, insisting her sister is allowed to do what she wants.
“This became a fight with my parents, who told me they have every right to know beforehand,” she said.
“I said they don’t. Only the parents of the child have that right, and not all babies get named beforehand anyway. They told me it wasn’t my business anyway, and I returned that it’s also none of theirs. They are the ones trying to go against my sister and BILs wishes. I told them my sister has the right idea, and they need to accept it and stop before they push her away or have limited info about their new granddaughter.”
“They told me I was being crazy and acting like they were doing something wrong, which they are not, in their mind. They told me I better not have been a bad influence on her with names. I rolled my eyes. They got so mad at me that they told me I owed the family an apology for how I have been treating them.”
She’s curious if it was wrong of her to get into a fight with her parents over her sister keeping her baby’s name a secret.
What do you think?
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