To Celebrate Her Anniversary This Year, She Wants To Post On Social Media Exposing Her Husband For Cheating On Her
In just a few weeks, this 33-year-old woman and her 39-year-old husband will be celebrating their 13th anniversary.
They tied the knot back in 2011 and have two girls together, who are 6 and 9-years-old. She always believed that she and her husband had a strong bond and an unshakable marriage.
Her husband works in the military, and two years ago, he received a promotion that required them to rapidly relocate to Hawaii.
She remained in Connecticut with their daughters and pets while her husband went ahead alone so that she could wrap up selling their home and organizing the move.
It wasn’t easy for her to take this all on, in addition to keeping their house spotless to show prospective buyers and running the girls between school, dentist, and doctor appointments.
“As I was stressing about all of that, I was then getting berated for getting help, like landscaping and house cleaners, because it cost too much money, according to him,” she explained.
“I felt like I was failing him, and I was hurting so bad. I haven’t been great with money, I won’t deny that, but these were things I truly couldn’t have done on my own. I already power washed the house myself to save money, I fixed things we should have hired a handyman for, etc.”
Then, when they reunited in Hawaii, her husband was terse and cold with her. She thought it had to do with his upcoming deployment since her husband needed to go away for 7 months.
Instead of getting irritated, she did everything in her power to make her husband’s life easier, but her patience with him wore thin, and she quit making an effort.
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Three weeks after she and the girls made it to their new home, her husband got deployed, and she got pulled into a deep depression surrounding a medical problem.
She was able to get out of that dark hole after her friends swooped in to save her, and from there, she went about unpacking and getting officially settled.
When January came to a close, her husband came home, and he was hesitant to kiss her or hold her hand.
“I knew we had things we had to discuss, but I wasn’t prepared for him to ask for a divorce,” she said.
“He stated my financial irresponsibility for the last 12 years (I won’t deny that, but he certainly isn’t as smart with money as he thinks he is) and my leaving the church (I am agnostic/spiritual now) as his reasoning and refused marriage counseling.”
“I was blindsided and devastated. I begged him to reconsider counseling, and after a day, he agreed. I felt like there was hope.”
That evening, her husband had a lot to drink, and he failed to set an alarm so he could wake up on time for work the following morning.
She went into her husband’s phone to try to do that for him, and when she unlocked the device, she saw a conversation her husband had with a 30-year-old woman named Diana.
She scrolled through all of the messages the two exchanged before digging around further.
Apparently, her husband started an affair with Diana, who lives in Texas, at the beginning of last year.
“Even had her fly to Hawaii to visit him in April of 2023, getting her a storage unit to start her moving here, which I know from pictures and videos of them together…,” she continued.
“He moved his family from the mainland to Hawaii knowing that he had no intention of staying with me, uprooting his kids’ lives because he couldn’t be a man and admit his infidelity.”
She separated from her husband after learning all about Diana, and they are moving ahead with a divorce.
However, that process is dragging on, and her husband hasn’t told anyone about their split except for his mom.
She’s sick of pretending that they’re still playing happy family, especially on social media.
“So I was going to post on our anniversary a nice little blurb about the 11 happy years together and how these last couple years shouldn’t count and then post pictures of him and this woman so people would understand why we’re getting divorced,” she added.
“I know it’s petty, but I’m tired of him thinking he’s not in the wrong at all. I would love for him to get put in his place.”
Do you think she should seek her revenge?
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