A Girl He Was Dating Painted Him Out To Be A Monster On Social Media After He Dumped Her For Another Girl
This guy was dating a girl whom he really liked and wanted to be serious with. However, she was only interested in seeing him every two weeks.
So, they agreed not to sleep with other people while seeing one another, but she desperately wanted to not delete the dating app that they met on, which he found strange.
Honestly, it just sounds like this girl was keeping her options open while window-shopping to see what else was out there for her.
Two months into dating this girl, everything was still casual, and nothing had changed for them.
His loved ones told him that if this girl was interested in him, she would be scheduling dates with more frequency than every two weeks.
They insisted he should start dating other girls, and if this girl decided to be committed, he should stop seeing the others.
So, that’s exactly what he did. He quit chasing after this girl as she was impossible to get a date out of and began seeing other girls, but there was one in particular who stood out to him.
“After 4 months, girl 1 suddenly wanted to get serious,” he explained. “We had [to] buy a house together, have kids, etc. [That] talk. I was delighted. I ended it with girl 2, but she wasn’t happy about it.”
Girl 2 found out that he had dated some other girls, and she went absolutely nuclear. He says that they were never that serious, and they had only gone on a handful of dates over the course of a couple of weeks.
T.Den_Team – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Girl 2 actually posted a photo of him that she sneakily took without his knowledge in a Facebook group and on a website dedicated to uncovering any tea about a guy you’re dating.
Now, the girl he picked sadly dumped him after a week of being serious, but one week after that, she learned of the post about him in this Facebook group.
She was angry with him because she also had no clue that he was dating more girls than just her, which he thinks isn’t fair because she’s the one who dumped him.
“The whole thing is a disaster. Now, I look like a total monster,” he said.
He feels like Girl 2 invaded his privacy by posting that photo of him in the first place, which was of him making them lunch in his house one day.
He’s left wondering if there’s anything he can do to get this post about him removed.
What advice do you have for him?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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