He Might Divorce His Wife For Secretly Becoming Her Best Friend’s Surrogate
Four years ago, this 31-year-old man married his 31-year-old wife, and they’re high school sweethearts.
His wife has a best friend from back then, too, E. He has never liked E, especially since E loves running right over boundaries.
Ever since he began dating his wife, E has attempted to get in the middle of them, and she’s also put him down, saying his wife is better than his nerdy self.
He stood up to E, and since he found that courage, she’s become more passive-aggressive about her dislike for him.
Last year, E and her husband were hanging out at their house, and he went upstairs to put his toddler son to bed.
“After I put my son to sleep in his crib upstairs, I went down and overheard their conversation about starting medical procedures for surrogacy,” he explained.
“I was appalled and asked them what were they talking about. The three were shocked to see me downstairs.”
“I told them I absolutely disagree, especially since my wife’s first pregnancy was very difficult. I was visibly upset and asked why they made this decision without consulting me.”
That’s right: his wife was on board to be a surrogate for E and E’s husband, and she never said anything to him about it first.
Roman – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person – pictured above a pregnant woman poses in a field
He got into a fight with E and her husband and then kicked them out of the house. A few hours later, his wife let him see a text message from E apologizing for trying to rope her into helping them have a baby.
Last Monday, his wife got so sick that he dragged her to the hospital even though she didn’t want to go.
While there, they learned that his wife was pregnant. He was elated but concerned because his wife struggled so much during her pregnancy with their son.
“She was unusually quiet on the drive home,” he said. “She then admitted she had secretly undergone IVF procedures since last year.”
At first, he thought there was a chance it was his child, but his wife confirmed that it wasn’t possible.
“I felt heartbroken, betrayed, and disrespected,” he continued. “It felt like it was the last straw. She always sided with E and tried to downplay E’s disrespectful behavior towards me.”
He packed some of his belongings and went to stay with his parents. He did tell his wife before walking out that he’s filing for divorce, and he told his toddler son he’s going on a business trip so as not to worry him.
His wife has texted and called him, but he hasn’t responded. He misses his son terribly, but he can’t bring himself to look at his wife, as he would feel even more crushed than he already does.
He’s disappointed that E and her husband haven’t said a thing to him, which further confirms they have zero respect.
While his sister, her husband, and his parents agree with his decision to move forward with divorcing his wife, his wife’s family and his friends are asking him to think twice about it.
He’s been crying nonstop this entire week, and he loves his wife, but he is so hurt by what she did behind his back.
He’s left wondering if it’s wrong of him to want a divorce after finding out that his wife secretly became a surrogate for her best friend.
What do you think?
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