Her Boyfriend Faked Being Into Wearing Women’s Clothes To Keep His Wife A Secret From Her
After this 23-year-old girl went out on five dates with her 25-year-old boyfriend, they decided to be official, and they’ve now been dating for close to a year.
Not only was the very first date with her boyfriend incredible, but all the dates they went on following that were dreamy.
She admits that her boyfriend had given off a couple of red flags as they kept seeing one another. For example, he never allowed her to come to his house if, for some reason, they couldn’t spend time at her place due to her roommates.
So, he would book them a hotel instead. She didn’t think it was a big deal, as her boyfriend’s excuse was that his house was a total mess, and he would be too humiliated for her to see it in such a state.
But several months into their relationship, she really wanted to see his house. After all, that’s kind of an important milestone in a relationship – getting to see where your significant other actually lives.
“It took a lot of convincing that I didn’t care about any mess, but eventually, he let me,” she explained.
“I came over, nothing seemed off, and he actually seemed to have tidied up before I came over. This became a regular thing until one day, I was using the bathroom and noticed a hoop earring near the trash can.”
The bathroom in question was the guest one, not the main bathroom, as her boyfriend always said the plumbing was ruined there.
He also had mentioned to her that none of his loved ones came to visit, so she realized this little earring couldn’t have belonged to his mom or sister.
BullRun – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person – pictured above a young woman poses in front of her closet full of clothes in a dress
She brought up the earring, and her boyfriend fell quiet before launching into a whole explanation about how he wears women’s clothing and how it’s a source of shame for him.
“Okay, I will admit I was pretty weirded out at first, but he started crying and begging me not to ruin his life by telling anyone,” she continued.
“I wasn’t gonna do that, of course, so over time, I began to accept it. I loved him, after all. And besides, it wasn’t hurting anyone, so why not?”
“He even started showing me the dresses he had been “hiding” in his closet when I came over from then on. Other than that, I didn’t ask about it, and it didn’t really become a part of our lives.”
Several days ago, though, she was in the bathroom and spotted a used pad, and that made her suspicious.
She went to her boyfriend about her discovery, and he said no girls came over to his place.
He promised he dyed the pad and left it there.
Finally, he admitted that, actually, he has a wife, and he’s been married throughout their entire relationship.
So he lied to her about being into women’s clothing in an effort to keep his wife a secret from her!
“Apparently, she was gone for work a lot as a travel nurse, and the times she was home, he wouldn’t let me come over,” she added.
“I was so…confused. And upset. I didn’t know how to process [it]. I still don’t know. I just feel so incredibly stupid to have fallen for such a lie. How do I proceed? Despite all this, I still have love for him…but obviously this can’t continue.”
“He keeps begging me not to tell anyone I know or spread this anywhere, and I’m worried he’ll get desperate. I’m still in shock from all this.”
What advice do you have for her?
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