Her Husband Confessed To Having A Double Life, Then Asked For A Divorce
This woman just had a bad feeling in her gut over the last year and a half that her husband was having an affair with his female coworker.
She brought up her concerns to her husband, who insisted they were nothing more than friends and that there wasn’t anything romantic going on between them.
Then, a year ago, she made the decision to comb through their phone bill to see if her hunch was correct.
She uncovered countless calls between her husband and his coworker through her investigative work.
“The amount of time they spent on the phone made me physically ill,” she explained. “He still swore they were just friends (I know, I know, stupid me).”
“We decided that after being together for nearly 20 years with three children, our relationship was worth “fixing.”
Her husband is in the military, and right after she brought up the phone calls to him, her husband got assigned to a new location in another state.
She was not thrilled about having to pack up their belongings right after finding out that her husband was having some kind of fling with his coworker, but she resolved to follow him.
She put their lives in boxes and made the move along with him. She felt that she would do absolutely anything for her husband, and that’s why she went.
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“Now, here I am, nearly a year after the move, and shattered,” she said. “My husband went away for work, and I knew she would be there.”
“After one day of him being away, all contact stopped. He came home four days later and admitted everything to me. There were several “work trips” that were not work-related at all…they were getaways with this girl.”
Not only was her husband sleeping with this girl, he confessed that he’s actually in love with her.
Her husband said there was no way she could begin to “understand the connection” that he has with this girl.
He then told her that there wasn’t anything she could do to make him feel the way that this girl makes him feel.
Her husband finished their conversation by asking her for a divorce. This happened two weeks ago, and her husband has since sat their three children down to tell them they’re no longer going to be together.
Her husband steers clear of coming home, and when he does end up back in their house, he won’t look at her.
He’s been avoiding their children, too, and he rarely responds to their text messages or phone calls. If he does bother replying, it’s hours after the fact and quite short.
“I’m just at a total loss,” she continued. “I’ll deal with him walking out on me, but to run to this girl and HER child and neglect your own children is a different story. And he is a good, loving dad, so I’m just baffled what has happened over the past few weeks that turned him into a stranger?!”
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