Her Husband Left Her For Another Girl, Asked For A Divorce, And Currently Wants Another Chance To Fix Their Marriage
This 28-year-old woman and her 29-year-old husband have been with one another for close to eight years, and two and a half years ago, they got hitched.
In May of 2023, her husband unexpectedly left her and her toddler and swiftly moved back to the town he’s from.
Her husband never revealed to her why he left; he only said they never should have gotten married in the first place.
Two months later, her husband decided he wanted to get back together with her. He remained in his hometown since he had a job there, and she began looking for a new career out by him.
“For six months, I managed a brutal commute, handled all childcare during the week, and drove to his town every weekend,” she explained.
“I went to interviews, basically doing everything to make it work. In December, I finally landed a fantastic job near him. But just a week before we were set to move into a new house together, I discovered he had been cheating.”
“He begged for forgiveness, promised to cut off contact with her, and I agreed to give it another shot.”
Two days after this conversation, she was back in the city where she was residing, finishing up some work at her old job, and then she learned her husband had unblocked his affair partner.
Not only that, he was busy liking all of this girl’s posts on social media. It destroyed her, and if that wasn’t bad enough, her husband literally kicked her out of their home.
blvdone – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person – pictured above, a woman is standing in the city with a serious expression on her face
She rushed to find a new spot to live because she was just about to start that job she got in his hometown.
Ever since then, she and her husband have not been living together. He says the cruelest things to her and has repeatedly requested a divorce.
Her husband brought up divorcing so many times she can’t even count them all up. She knew her husband had left her for his affair partner, and she even saw this girl’s car parked at her husband’s home.
“I finally stopped trying to “win him back” and only communicated about our child,” she said. “Now, suddenly, he’s desperate to reconcile, saying he’ll do anything to make it work.”
“He unfollowed her, unliked all her photos, and keeps insisting I shouldn’t give up on us. The truth is, I’ve moved on. I don’t want to get back together.”
“He’s hurt me too much, and I’ve lost count of the times he’s let me down. I want to tell him that reconciliation isn’t an option without sounding cold. I aim to keep a healthy co-parenting relationship and try to be civil, but he interprets my friendliness as wanting him back.”
She has tried to tell her husband about how she’s feeling, but he ignores her. Instead, he has promised never to quit trying to get her back, and he won’t allow her to have a divorce, which is the only thing she wants from him at this rate.
She’s wondering how to make it crystal clear to her husband that she’s over him and wants out because she needs to get through to him.
What advice do you have for her?
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