She Cried After Reading In Her Boyfriend’s Diary That He Wanted Another Girl To Be His Wife After He Made Things Official With Her
Back in November of 2022, this 22-year-old girl met her 28-year-old boyfriend. In March of last year, her boyfriend made things official and said he wanted her to be his girlfriend.
A week ago, she got to meet her boyfriend’s parents for the very first time, and her boyfriend mentioned he never introduced them to anyone he’s dated before.
While her boyfriend’s parents were lovely, one thing ruined their trip: her boyfriend’s diary from a year ago.
Her boyfriend was giving her a tour of his room in his mom and dad’s house, and she picked up that diary from 2023.
Her boyfriend said nothing to her as she flipped through his diary, and he’s not a private kind of guy, so he allowed her to look.
He has a more recent diary, and when he falls asleep, she writes adorable messages in there for him to read later. Her boyfriend will respond later and write a note back to her, and so they go back and forth.
When her boyfriend went to bed that night, she went back to the diary to read more, and it was then that she uncovered her boyfriend was talking to and going out on dates with other girls back in March of last year.
This happened at the same time she was seeing him, and after he asked her to make their relationship official.
“…I think he was in love with someone else; he wrote that there’s a woman at work who he thinks is the “most attractive woman” he’s ever seen,” she explained.
Jacob Lund – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person – pictured above a man writes in his diary
Her boyfriend began a new job in January of last year. He wrote in his diary that he got his coworker’s number and went out on dates with her.
He also said he would like for this girl to be his wife, and everything he wrote made it seem like he was head over heels in love.
Her boyfriend jotted down that this girl smiles, and it’s like the sun comes out, and he said he could not imagine his life without her.
“I cried when reading it. All of this was in February and March 2023, so he asked me to be his GF during this. I’m so confused,” she added.
“Even in April he was saying he was upset with how things turned out with her. I think she cut things off or was seeing someone else; he said seeing her at work is hard in MAY.”
“I feel like he asked me to be his GF because being alone would be harder or something. I was clearly a backup option. If she was available and wanted to be with him, we definitely wouldn’t be together right now, and that fact is breaking me.”
She loves her boyfriend, and they’re supposed to celebrate their two-year anniversary in a week. He planned out a lot of activities for them to mark a special occasion, like concerts and theatre shows.
They got back to London on Monday after visiting his mom and dad, and she has not been talking to him that much. He can tell something is wrong, but she’s not sure how to admit it’s all because of his diary.
What advice do you have for her?
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