She Found Out Her Husband Has Feelings For His Coworker Two Weeks Before Her Wedding
Just two weeks before her wedding day, this woman found out that her husband has feelings for his coworker.
Instead of hitting the brakes on her upcoming marriage in light of such an upsetting piece of information, she went through with it.
“He told me he was “enchanted” by her, that she was lighthearted, funny, and beautiful,” she explained.
“I was devastated. He said he barely knew her, that it was silly, and we went ahead with the wedding.”
“Now we’ve been married for six months, and we’re in a difficult situation. It really bothers me that he continues to work with her.”
She’s requested that her husband switch departments or find a totally new job since it makes her feel awful that her husband is always around this coworker he has feelings for.
Her husband has agreed to do both things, but he was just paying her lip service. He’s not interested in doing anything to make her feel more comfortable about the amount of time he spends with his coworker.
What’s weird is that her husband hates the company he works for, and before his coworker started there, he was looking for other jobs to move to because he wanted out.
But that all came to an end right after his coworker walked through the door, and this woman is clearly the only thing keeping him there.
zinkevych – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person – pictured above, a young corporate woman looks to the side
Lately, she’s been going through her husband’s phone to see what he’s up to, but he caught her and then installed several passwords to prevent her from snooping.
Her husband likes to check up on his coworker’s social media accounts, and when he does speak to her on the phone on work-from-home days, he uses a sickly sweet tone with his coworker.
She also has recorded conversations between her husband and his coworker. She knows it’s completely wrong of her to do this, but that’s the level of insecurity that has leaked into her life.
“He says there’s nothing going on, that it was just a silly mistake on his part,” she said. “But I feel very uncomfortable about him working with her, not wanting to leave, and I cry a lot, which makes him really angry.”
What advice do you have for her? If your spouse had feelings for their coworker but refused to switch jobs or departments, would you still want to remain in your marriage?
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