The Guy She’s Been Hooking Up With Has A Fiancée, And He’s Begging Her Not To Say Anything To His Future Wife
This 22-year-old girl met a 33-year-old guy online, and at first, he didn’t tell her the truth about his age because he claimed to be 29.
He’s super handsome, works as an architect, has a charming Irish accent, and is over 6 feet tall. They kicked things off just as friends with benefits, but then she started to really like him.
Nothing ever got serious between them, and it turns out there’s a reason why their relationship hasn’t progressed beyond hooking up: this guy’s been double dipping, as he’s already engaged to another woman.
“He never invited me to his place, and eventually, I found out he has a fiancée and is planning to marry her in less than a year,” she explained.
“I looked her up online, and now he’s begging me not to tell her. He’s saying he’ll change and that I’d ruin their lives if I told her because she’s financially dependent on him, and this would break her.”
“I’m so against cheating, and I hate that I was unknowingly the “other woman.” I feel awful for his fiancée and for not telling her yet.”
She’s also aware that she’s not the first girl he’s cheated on his future wife with – there’s easily over 10 other girls.
She’s stressing out over what to do, and she feels awful that he made her a mistress without her consent.
She’s certainly going to stop seeing him, but she’s not positive if she should alert his fiancée. She has evidence – a video of them hooking up.
TIGERRAW – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person – pictured above a young woman subtly smiles while holding her hand up to her face
So it’s not like she doesn’t have proof to back her up, it’s just weighing on her that he said she will ruin their lives if she tells the truth.
“I’m scared that karma will hit me if I knowingly let that girl marry him,” she added.
Do you think she should respect his wishes and not tell his fiancée about what he’s up to behind her back?
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Just found out my FWB has a fiancée he’s marrying soon – he's begging me not to tell her. Feeling lost and guilty.
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