She Just Found Out That The Guy She’s Been Seeing Exclusively Didn’t Delete The Dating App They Met On And He’s Been Actively Talking To Other Girls
A 26-year-old woman has been exclusively seeing a 28-year-old man since last September, but, they have a history that stretches longer than just a few months.
She actually met him more than 2 years ago, and they first got into a relationship back then before breaking up more than 1 year ago.
Although they broke up, they still spoke to each other close to every single day. In September, they wound up moving to the exact same city, and they decided to resume their relationship, but things haven’t been so smooth since the fall.
“We’ve been on and off, going back and forth,” she explained. “We revealed all the stuff we’ve done behind the other person’s back.”
“And we’ve also had a lot of talks about boundaries. He wanted me to remove people from my life, any guys who aren’t appropriate and he did the same. We deleted dating apps in September when we started this.”
“He’s already made multiple mistakes — slept with someone and gone to breakfast with a girl he’s gone on dates with but says it was only to explain why he dropped her.”
“He also continuously follows random girls and likes their stuff, which I’ve said upsets me. Whenever I’ve done something to stray, like the one time I started texting a guy, he flipped out and made me block him.”
Now, the guy she’s seeing has looked at her phone and other devices several times to make sure she isn’t speaking to anyone else.
She did delete every single dating app that she was on, and when guys do slide into her DMs, she never replies.
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She’s been doing everything right to stay exclusive and remain committed to this guy, but he has not been doing the same things.
In fact, she just discovered that the guy she’s seeing has not deleted the app that they met on, and he’s been talking to other women on it.
She lost it when she found out since he told her he was going to delete it, but he didn’t do that at all.
When she did find out about this lie, she quickly confronted him about it. “…He defended having a hinge by saying it’s to protect himself because he doesn’t trust me,” she said.
She also sent him a ton of furious text messages, in which she did call him a liar and a faker, and he hasn’t said a single thing back.
She knows she should not have sent some many angry messages, but him being on a dating app definitely means he’s not that invested in their relationship, which was supposed to be exclusive in that they agreed not to talk to or see other people.
She feels absolutely bewildered because they both have said that they love the other person, and she also has already met his family.
They get together and hang out nearly every single weekend, and nearly every single day.
She’s wondering what her next move should be. How would you handle this? You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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