Katharina Buczek
The man also told his mother and sister about the woman. While he could have just mentioned that he was going out, this raised a red flag for the woman.
How serious did he think they were before even going on a date?
Still, the woman had a lovely time. She enjoyed the restaurant the man chose, and the pair went on a classic beach walk after dinner.
“I could tell he is very kind, smart, and loves animals like I do. He is also very good-looking and a great kisser, too,” the woman recalled.
She would have felt very confident moving forward with a second date if it had not felt like “too much, too soon.”
So now, the woman is left wondering if his behavior was a red flag or if she just is not used to this kind of fast-paced dating.
“Maybe I’m just not into PDA. I’m not sure what it is,” the woman wondered, “I’m conflicted because I like him a lot, but I’m not in love yet, and he looks like he is.”
She is also worried about leading this man on.
“I don’t want to play with his feelings, so I don’t know if I should continue seeing him and wait to see if I fall in love too or just don’t accept the second date and move on,” the woman explained.
It is hard to come out of a long-term relationship and begin dating again.
Do you think the woman was just out of her element or was the man moving way too fast? If you were in this woman’s shoes, what would you do?
