Katharina Buczek
The spam-texting was not the only red flag, though. The date even offered to drop any friends that the woman did not like after barely knowing her.
“I thought that was odd as her friends are really nice,” the woman said, “She also gave me access to her online business and told me that, at any time, I could get her to quit. That was her only source of income.”
The woman, again, found the whole exchange to be bizarre. She convinced her date to keep her job and rightfully explained how quitting is her own decision.
After their first date, she also insisted that they meet each other’s parents.
“I said no multiple times, but, in the end, I relented, and we went to the movies with her parents for a second date,” the woman said, “I thought this was weird, but I liked the girl a lot, so I ignored it.”
As if she was not already moving way too fast, the woman’s date finally pushed the woman over the edge when she began planning a wedding.
“My final straw was when, after less than a week of knowing her, she asked me to marry her and started making wedding plans right in front of me,” the woman said, “After a week of all of this, I decided it was enough and that I needed to talk to her.”
The woman told her date that while she did not want to break off their relationship, things were still moving way too quickly. Then, out of the blue, the date began ghosting the woman.
“She would only message me a ‘good morning’ every day, but nothing else, and would not respond to my texts. When I finally got her to respond, she said that she was listening to my wishes in wanting to slow the relationship down,” the woman said.
While this reeks of manipulation, the woman still wanted to make her happy. So, she spent the night at her date’s house to appease her. Still, she did not plan to entertain this relationship much longer.
“By this stage, I was already planning how I was going to break up with her. Part of me didn’t want to let her go, but, in the end, I knew it was for the best,” the woman said.
