Chip Chick
A 22-year-old woman has been seeing a 26-year-old guy for more than a year now, and she originally met him on a dating app.
She thinks this guy is nice and all, but they have not taken their relationship further because of him.
According to this guy, he thinks that they are “not ready yet” to be committed to one another, which you know means he’s not ready to commit.
She has no idea how to make this guy feel like he is ready to get serious, and she has no clue how to get closer to him or what more she can do.
She considers this guy to be essentially her best friend, and their physical connection is excellent. She has feelings for him, and she knows he has feelings for her too.
“We’ve met each other’s friends and talk about future, marriage, children, etc. on a regular basis (half-jokingly, half-serious),” she explained.
“I am a bit hesitant as he needs to find a way to handle all his responsibilities (work, job, his flat, health, friends, mental health) but we have committed to supporting each other in regard to personal growth and development.”
“Of course, I am not perfect by any means myself but I think that I am more mature and able to handle being a responsible grown-up.”
They don’t have similar interests, but they do get along well and have a similar sense of humor.
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