Chip Chick
She does have an open situation with this guy, as they’re free to do anything that they want with someone else if they are attracted to another person.
At first, this really bothered her about her relationship, but she currently considers it to be a kind of freedom for her.
Last week, she was just living her life in the city where she lives when she bumped into a really good-looking man riding a bike.
“We smiled at each other but he was gone before either of us could start up a conversation,” she said.
“Scrolling through Tinder later that day I found out that we actually already have a match and have been texting back and forth but stopped (about two months ago).”
“He texted me the same day and we have started dating/sleeping with each other pretty much the next day.”
This new guy definitely has his life in order and appears to be super interested in pursuing her. She never told him that she is seeing another guy or that she has been for more than a year.
She’s thinking that it might be time to ditch her current guy for this new one since she wants to be in a more traditional kind of relationship than the one she found herself in.
This new guy is very interested in some of the same things that she is, and it’s easy to talk to him.
She’s aware that she needs to figure things out as soon as possible and “fix the situation.”
“Leaving my FWB for good would cut out an amazing and benevolent person from my life while leaving the bike crush would feel like wasting a fateful opportunity and a more grown-up way of leading a healthy relationship,” she concluded.
