She’s Convinced That Her Fiancé Is Changing Things About His Personality Because He Has The Hots For His Coworker
A 30-year-old woman has been with her 29-year-old fiancé named Matt for the last 6 years, and 6 months ago, she noticed that Matt’s personality was beginning to change.
She’s convinced the differences in Matt are due to him having the hots for his coworker, though part of her is worried that she might just be making it all up and acting paranoid since she can’t prove there’s anything going on between them.
So, a couple of months ago, her fiancé started a new job, and then he met his 23-year-old coworker named Chrissy.
Initially, Matt started talking about Chrissy like someone would normally talk about a coworker. It wasn’t romantic, and nothing he said gave her bad vibes.
Suddenly though, Matt began to change from the person she knew and loved, and she could only point to Chrissy as the reason for that.
The first change in Matt had to deal with dogs.
“Like he is not a dog person at all and has expressed multiple times that he never wanted one, but all the sudden, out of the blue, he “needed” a dog and was constantly looking up photos of dogs or watching TikToks of dogs and low and behold, we now have a dog,” she explained.
“The connection there is that Chrissy brings her 3 dogs to work every day and only posts on social media about how much of a dog mom she is and how she can’t trust anyone who doesn’t like dogs or can’t be with anyone who doesn’t like/have “doggos.”
The second change in Matt has to do with his drinking preferences. He rarely drinks, and when he does, it’s only whiskey.
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“He hates anything pumpkin flavored and hates beer,” she said. “He all of a sudden started bringing home pumpkin head beer every single weekend.”
“This was shortly following Chrissy posting on FB about being upset because she ran out of Pumpkin Head and had to drink a different beer or whatever (I only know her posts because she added me on FB some months back).”
The third significant change in Matt is related to his work schedule. He’s been staying at work much later than usual, and she knows that Chrissy is also at work late with him.
She also recently overheard Matt talk about Chrissy a lot to one of his friends, and it’s happening pretty frequently that he brings her up in conversation. Eventually, she confronted Matt about his changes in personality and asked him if it had anything to do with Chrissy.
She then grilled him on why he constantly speaks about Chrissy before listing all of the changes in his personality that she’s noticed and how she thinks it correlates to Chrissy and Chrissy’s interests.
“He says I’m making something out of nothing and that he has no attraction to Chrissy, and I’m being paranoid but hasn’t elaborated further,” she said. “My friends think I’m being ridiculous because he is “allowed to have female friends. Which isn’t what I’m arguing. I’m arguing the fact that he has twisted his life to go with her preferences since meeting her, which seems more than your normal friendly behavior.”
Do you think she’s blowing things out of proportion, or do you think Matt really does have the hots for Chrissy?
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