Her Boyfriend Just Got $300,000 And She’s Upset He Won’t Spend Any Of His Money On Spoiling Her Just A Little
A woman and her boyfriend have been together for a little less than 2 years, and she believes everything is trending in a serious way.
Her boyfriend has mentioned getting a place together as well as getting married to her. One thing that always bothered her is that from the beginning of their relationship, her boyfriend left her under the impression that he enjoys spoiling the women he dates.
Her boyfriend has admitted that he paid his ex-girlfriend’s bills and did other things in a financial sense for women he used to be with.
“Even with that, I never expected to be straight-up spoiled, and that’s good because I certainly never have; I’m talking even not getting gifts on valentine’s day/ my bday,” she explained.
“I am a big present giver and try to do as much as I can with the money I have. Now given that he does usually picks up the tab if we get takeout or if we go out to dinner on a special occasion. He also makes decent money, about 3x what I make.”
“He would tell me how he would pay for him and his ex to go on vacation meanwhile, when we go away, we go dutch. I tried not to let it bother me and just assumed if he had the money, he would.”
Anyway, that leads us to today. Not too long ago, her boyfriend came into $300,000. Her boyfriend is planning to use that money to purchase a house, and the rest he wants to save.
While she does get what he wants to do with the money, she was hoping that he would use some of it to spoil her.
“I’m not talking a trip to Paris or a Louis Vuitton bag; I’m talking something reasonable that I’ve been wanting and can’t afford or helping me with a bill I’m struggling with,” she said.
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“Again, I’m not talking thousands here, even just a few hundred. But so far, he hasn’t done anything like that, not even something small like buying me flowers, and he says he wants to be careful with his money and not spend it for fun.”
“But then he tells me how he’s looking at 2 cars he wants to buy (already has a nice truck) and how he wants to fly across the country to go to a fancy restaurant that’s $500 a person.”
She has pointed out to him that what he wants to do comes down to spending a ton of money, and he always replies that because it’s his money, he can do whatever he chooses with it.
She does acknowledge that he is allowed to spend his money how he wants and without her input, but she just can’t get over the fact that he doesn’t want to spend a dime on her.
If she puts herself in his shoes, she would be happy to spend some of her $300,000 on him, so she’s really struggling with why he won’t do something nice for her.
Do you think her boyfriend should want to spend money on her, or do you think it’s ok for him to be selfish with his money?
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