Back When She Was 19, She Slept With A Former Teacher, And Now She’s Concerned He Might Be Preying On His Current Students
A 20-year-old girl had a 32-year-old male teacher at school that she really did get along wonderfully with when she was 11 through 13.
Then, when she turned 13, this teacher ended up leaving and going somewhere else, though she was able to stay in contact with him through e-mail and also through Pinterest.
“We talked on and off for 5 years, and when I was about 15, I developed a bit of a crush on him that led to me wanting to fulfill the fantasy of sleeping with him,” she explained.
“When I was 19, I asked him to meet up at a pub. We had some drinks, he invited himself back to my place for coffee, and we eventually hooked up. He started crying midway through because he was being unfaithful to his wife.”
“Earlier that night, he had admitted to me he had had several affairs over the course of his marriage; he left my old school because he got one of the TAs pregnant and was talking to a student teacher currently, but nothing physical had happened. I know it was a s***** thing to do to his wife, but in my mind, it was more his problem than mine.”
A week after that encounter, she again asked her former teacher to come over, and she wound up sleeping with him a second time.
This time, however, she says it was the absolute worst experience in bed that she has ever had, and she couldn’t wait for everything to be over.
She admits it wasn’t a good idea to sleep with him for a second time, but as soon as he was at her place, she felt guilty that she had asked him to come over.
Not long after all this happened, she mentioned to her former teacher that she was dating another guy and wanted to cut things off, and he agreed that this was for the best.
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Her former teacher immediately quit sending her text messages right after they had that chat.
This all happened last year, but currently, she can’t help but wonder if she was preyed on and taken advantage of.
“According to him, he assumed I had a crush on him at school (I did not) but kept talking to me because the crush was ‘harmless,'” she said.
“I told my Mum a few months ago, and she was mortified and told me she was considering contacting the school he works at, as he might be doing the same thing to other students.”
She wouldn’t let her mom do that, though, as she insisted it should be her choice to tell her former teacher’s wife and school about what went down.
It does keep crossing her mind that perhaps her former teacher has slept with his former students before, and she was never the first one.
Although her former teacher swore she was the first, she’s not so sure now. A few days ago, she did reach out to him, and they wound up discussing their hookups.
“He told me that he was really upset I had ended things and would have liked things to have developed into a relationship – and I quote, “boyfriend and girlfriend,” she continued.
“He told me he was currently faithful to his wife and told her about his previous affairs (not me, though), but implied he would like to start seeing me again – even live with me in a house he wanted to build in the Outer Hebrides in the future.”
A few hours after their conversation ended, he sent her a steamy short story he had penned, and the whole thing was obviously about what happened between them.
She felt shocked to see that he had written a story about them, to be honest.
“I know what he did was wrong and creepy,” she added. “I know I was in the wrong for meeting him in the first place, and as an adult, I had autonomy in my decisions.”
“However, I’m becoming more and more worried that he could be abusing his power at work – and at the very least, his wife should be able to make her own mind up about whether she wants to stay with him after he cheated on her with an ex-student.”
Do you think she should reach out to his wife or tell his school?
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