Her Friend Has Started Dressing Inappropriately While Hitting On Her Husband, And She’s Wondering If It’s Time To Tell Her Off
A woman has a 37-year-old friend who is dealing with a divorce at the moment. She adores her friend; her friend really is wonderful, but her friend also is super invested in her appearance.
Her friend constantly seeks validation for how she looks, and after news of the divorce broke, her friend began losing a ton of weight.
Her friend always was on the thinner side, but things have spiraled out of control, and she’s full-blown obsessed about what she eats and how she exercises.
She’s beginning to suspect her friend is suffering from an eating disorder, and she is incredibly worried about her.
While all this has been going on, her friend has begun to get closer to not only her; but her husband as well.
Her friend is starting to increasingly cling to her husband, even when she’s standing right there.
“She’ll constantly go to where he is, keep showing off her weight loss, talking about her looks and such,” she explained.
“Her dressing was always provocative, but she’s now dialed it up quite a bit. The last two times she’s come around, her clothes are so short her underwear is easily seen. I mentioned that to her.”
“This past weekend, she asks to come over again, and she’s in a see-through lace crop top; only the boob area is fully covered. Extremely short skirt (with underwear easily seen when walking or sitting), high boots that she could barely walk in (she had to hold onto me for support), and a jacket that she draped over her shoulders. She was freezing as the weather has changed but still wouldn’t wear the jacket.”
bnenin – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Her friend walked through her front door, said hi to her, and then said hi to her husband. She helped her friend into her kitchen, and although her friend did stop to spend a bit of time with her while she was prepping some food, eventually, her friend left to go hang out with her husband.
Half an hour after her friend left the kitchen to hang out with her husband, she finished up what she was doing and went to go see what was up.
Her friend maintained that since she could be working with her husband sometime soon, she was interested in spending time with him to hear about some ideas that he had.
“A few friends have made comments about her inappropriate behavior around my husband,” she said.
“I was mostly willing to give her the benefit of a doubt. I spoke to my husband, and he mentioned that he, too, is sketched out by her behavior and his friend who came by later also asked him what’s going on there and if the girl is hitting on him. I want to have a conversation with her but don’t want to come off as…shaming or some insecure wife. It’s just getting to the point where I think something needs to be said.”
She added that her friend has a son who is 9, and even he has become uncomfortable with how she dresses.
She’s wondering if she has a right to tell her friend off about how she’s behaving, especially in regard to her husband.
Do you think she should say something and confront her friend, or should she be quieter about it and just phase this woman out of her life?
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