“We end up going on our first date, and it starts off great!” she said. “Mind you, there are tables, so there’s a boundary between us.”
Since the date was a surprising success for them both, they decided to move on after dinner to a local speakeasy for drinks, she said.
“That speakeasy only had at-bar seating, so we ended up sitting next to each other instead of across from each other,” she explained. That detail is extremely important for what happened next.
As she mentioned, the fact that they were now seated next to each other was “where things get a little weird.” He decided to amp up the physical touch once they were within close proximity to one another.
“He’s kind of trying to touch my arm, touch my hand–which, like, fine, ok if that’s your thing,” she said. “But I’m not a big physical touch person.”
He then takes the physical touch to a whole new level by bizarrely flicking her hair off of her shoulders repeatedly.
“It gets to the point where he grabs my hair, he doesn’t pull, but he grabs it, and he just– huffs it,” she said while intensely sniffing her own hair as a demonstration. “And I mean that literally.”
The entire situation made her extremely uncomfortable and turned down any chance of possibly pursuing this guy.
“He continues to do this, and it progresses to the point where he’s like starting to sniff my head and then give me kisses,” she further explained. “It goes from just smelling my hair to smelling my skin.”
While he does compliment her on how good she smells, it’s in a creepy way, not in a flattering one. But the date gets so much worse from there.
When they finally leave, she says that she’s going to head home even though he invited her back to his place. But he won’t leave her.