He Honestly Believed It Was Impossible For His Fiancée To Get Pregnant, So When She Told Him That They’re Going To Be Parents, He Didn’t Have The Best Reaction
This 31-year-old man has been with his 32-year-old fiancée for 7 years, and he proposed to her in December of 2022.
Now, back when he was only newly dating his fiancée, she mentioned to him that she was not able to have a baby.
She didn’t give him a ton of details as they did not know one another that well, but she brought it up because she didn’t want it to be something he dumped her over.
He replied back to her that it wasn’t a problem for him and they could always explore other options down the line if they wanted to have children.
Well, as they got further into dating, she then told him the real reason why she could not get pregnant; she had suffered from an eating disorder that negatively impacted her body.
“I made sure that she knew how much I loved her because she was kind of ashamed of it, although it’s not really her fault (she was in therapy for this),” he explained.
“The doctors basically told her that it’ll be imposible for her to get pregnant, we talked about our future, and we decided to adopt kids when we were ready to be parents.”
Fast forward to today; they are engaged, they’re about to tie the knot, and they decided they should begin their adoption journey.
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Well, lately, his fiancée has not been feeling well, and at first, they thought it was due to her celiac disease.
But then, his fiancée got so sick that she finally went to the hospital. He did not go with her, but when she came home, she reassured him that she was ok and she was acting normal.
“We live near the beach, so yesterday she told me that she wanted to have a picnic there; she told me that she’ll get everything done,” he said.
“So a while before the sun sets, we walk down to the beach. She had prepared some sandwiches that we ate, we also ate some fruit/drank juice, etc.”
“At some point, she tells me that she has a surprise for me and to close my eyes. I do, and she puts a piece of paper in my hand and tells me to open them again. It’s an ultrasound, NGL; my first thought was, “what is this?” then I figured it out. She was expecting me to say something, so I asked her whose baby is it.”
His fiancée replied that the baby was theirs, and he just laughed in her face before asking her to tell him the truth about whose baby it was.
His fiancée again stated the baby was theirs, but he accused her of taking the photo off the internet and playing a prank on him.
She informed him that it wasn’t a joke at all, and she clearly was no longer in a good mood as she set him straight.
His fiancée became mad and started to walk away and go home. He headed after her, questioning her if she was really telling him the truth.
“She said yes, I got very happy and hugged her, which I think made her a bit less angry,” he continued.
“We picked up our stuff and got back home. She told me that the doctors can’t explain her pregnancy either, she has to do some tests, so we still haven’t told anyone, but she wanted me to know. I feel very sad…because she was just too excited and had planned a surprise for me, but I messed up.”
He’s left wondering if it was mean of him to react the way that he did, but he honestly believed she could never get pregnant.
What do you think?
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