His Girlfriend Of Seven Years Cheated On Him And Got Pregnant, But He Still Cannot Let Go Of Her
This 30-year-old guy has been dating his girlfriend, who is 28, since 2015. And after being together for seven whole years, he is absolutely certain that he’s crazy about her.
“There’s no doubt that I love her, and I know she loves me, too. We’re so integrated into each other’s lives that it’s hard to picture a life in the future without her,” he explained.
Over the past few years, though, their relationship has sort of stagnated. Yes, it’s had both its ups and downs. But, he reflected on how the past couple of years had not been particularly great or horrible.
One specific issue he and his girlfriend have struggled with, though, is their physical connection. According to him, their chemistry just was not there in the past. And understandably, it made both him and his girlfriend pretty anxious and insecure.
That’s why, after it got so bad in July 2022, he returned home from work to find all of his girlfriend’s belongings gone. He later found out that she had purchased a new home out of the blue and did not want him to go with her.
“I was devastated,” he recalled.
“I had to move back to my mom’s house 100 miles away and rearrange my entire life without any notice.”
Throughout all of this turmoil, though, he and his girlfriend still stayed in touch. And over time, they slowly began to reconcile their differences.
He also personally felt inspired to start working on himself and making necessary changes to fix their relationship.
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Soon after that, his relationship began going really well, too. His girlfriend was also proud of him and appreciated the newfound effort he was putting in.
But, at the same time, she was not really letting him visit her house. Instead, they would just go on dates– which was great for a while.
It wasn’t long, though, until he noticed his girlfriend was becoming visibly more depressed. She also began having a bunch of health issues. His girlfriend claimed to be constantly nauseous and said she underwent gallbladder surgery. She also told him that she had suffered a fall and a concussion at work.
So, while his girlfriend was really overwhelmed, he did his best to be there for her.
Just about a month ago, though, the pair sat down to have a pretty emotional discussion about their past relationship issues. And during that talk, his girlfriend revealed what had actually been going on with her.
Apparently, she suffered a miscarriage– and the baby was not his.
This news understandably shell-shocked him, and he pressed his girlfriend for more information.
Afterward, she revealed how, shortly after he moved out, she was with another man. Then, she wound up getting pregnant and hooked up with this other guy at least two more times.
Now, this obviously hurt him, and it honestly still does.
“But at the time, I knew I had been a pretty awful boyfriend in the past. And like I said, I love her so much and can’t picture my life without her. So I thought this would be something I could work past,” he said.
“It would take time, but I thought that I could do it.”
Everything concerning his girlfriend’s “health issues” started to make sense, too. For instance, her “fall at work” was really just the time she went to the hospital for her miscarriage.
He realized he was completely oblivious to the lies, though, and never suspected that she was capable of hiding such a huge truth from him.
Still, he tried to look past everything for the sake of moving forward. But that was until a couple of days ago when he called his girlfriend to say goodnight and was greeted by another man on the phone.
He immediately knew who the guy was, and it turned out that during his girlfriend’s pregnancy, she had given the guy a key to her house. Mind you, this is the same new house that he still has never been inside!
Regardless, this other guy has apparently been going over to his girlfriend’s house and freaking out on her for talking to him. He also learned the other man had been laying his hands on his girlfriend– even gripping her to the point of creating bruises.
So, he was immediately concerned for her safety and tried to get his girlfriend to stay at her mother’s house. She just refused, though, and kept insisting that her safety was not at risk.
This pushed the pair to get into a huge argument, and now, he is feeling utterly exhausted. He is sick of worrying about his girlfriend even after she betrayed him so severely.
His girlfriend did start crying over the whole situation and admitted how much she regretted the entire domino effect. While he believes she is regretful, though, he just cannot get over how everything has played out.
“I can’t stop asking myself, ‘How did I get here?’ I don’t think there’s anything salvaging this, but I can’t seem to let go,” he vented.
So now, he’s been left wondering how to move forward.
Can you believe he still tried to make it work with his girlfriend after he found out about the new house and the cheating? If you had been in his shoes, would you have cut it off right then and there? Do you agree that there is no salvaging this relationship?
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