His Ex-Girlfriend Is Angry That He Didn’t Offer To Pay Her Rent After She Got An Eviction Notice
This 33-year-old man started talking to his 27-year-old ex-girlfriend after six years. She had contacted him because she and her most recent boyfriend were splitting up, and she was moving out of the house they were renting.
All of the conversations between him and her were innocent and friendly, and he assumed that they were just catching up and reconnecting.
After about a week of chatting, he asked his ex if she wanted to meet up. She agreed to it, and so he made reservations at a restaurant he knew that she would like.
He texted her to confirm, and she told him that it was a date. However, once he got to the restaurant and let her know that he was there, she gave him no response. Even after calling her and messaging her again, he didn’t hear anything.
“I wait in my car, wondering what’s going on. Is she hurt? Is her battery dead? Any excuse I could think of to justify this behavior. After an hour of waiting, I went home,” he explained.
The next day, he woke up to several apologies from her, but still no explanation of why she didn’t show up.
He asked her if everything was okay, and she told him that she was just fine and quickly changed the subject.
They continued to talk after that, and once again, he asked her if she wanted to meet up in person. She agreed to it, and so they set up another date.
This time, he decided not to drive to the restaurant until he heard back from her that day, but no confirmation ever came. Again, the next morning, he was met with her apologies but no reasons why she stood him up.
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Through their texts, he gathered that she was struggling financially. He let her know that if things went well between them as they were reconnecting, he would be happy to help her out.
But due to her still living with her ex and being a no-show, he would have to gain more trust in her. To this, she claimed that she was capable of taking care of herself and didn’t need his help.
A week after she stood him up for the second time, she texted him in the middle of the night, asking him if she could come over.
He replied yes and was excited to finally see her. Before she left, after sharing some wine and kissing one another, he asked if they could meet up again, and she claimed that she would love that.
The following day, she asks him if he could drop her off at the airport, and he says that he definitely could.
“The day arrives that I’m supposed to drop her off, and once again…nothing. I hear back from her two days later claiming she broke her phone,” he said.
She ended up ghosting him like this an additional four times! More recently, she sent him a screenshot of an email she received from her landlord about an eviction notice.
While he apologized that this was going on, that is where he left it. She, however, was angry that he didn’t offer to pay her rent!
“I replied that she has bailed every time we were supposed to hang, all we do is text, and I don’t trust her based on her past behavior,” he stated.
She continued to argue with him, claiming that if he really and truly cared about her, he would have given her the money and asked no questions.
He thought this was a bit of a stretch, and his family and friends were on his side about it. However, his coworker told him that if he wanted another relationship with his ex, maybe he should have given her the rent money.
What do you think he should have done in this situation? Do you think it was smart of him not to give her any money? She claims that she is in the process of moving out from her ex’s place, but do you think she is telling the truth?
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