His Wife Planned A Trip To Hawaii Without Him Or Their Kids, So He Threatened To Divorce Her If She Went

This 40-year-old guy has been with his wife, who is 41, for 10 years and married for seven years. They also have two children together.
He and his wife both currently work. He goes to work six days a week; meanwhile, his wife works just three days a week and still earns significantly more money than he does.
However, they have still never been able to go on a family vacation out of their home state.
“Sure, we’ve been camping and driven to neighboring cities and stayed at a nice resort here and there in the summer,” he explained.
But, he has not been on a more major vacation in quite a long time.
That’s why, after his wife recently broke the news that she planned to go to Hawaii without him or their kids, he was furious.
Apparently, his wife’s friend has an aunt who has a house in Hawaii. So, his wife planned to take a trip there with her friend.
As soon as his wife told him this all excitedly, he was immediately upset.
“And I brought up the fact that we have never had a week anywhere together since the youngest was born almost four years ago,” he recalled.

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Then, he wound up telling his wife that if she decides to go on the trip to Hawaii, then she will not have a husband to return home to. Instead, he would actually just file for divorce.
Still, his ultimatum didn’t impact his wife’s decision since she ultimately went on vacation anyway. And ever since she’s gotten home, they’ve had plenty of arguments.
On top of their drama at home, his wife has also started going around and telling all of their friends and family that he has been being mean to her. His wife claimed that she deserved to go on a trip, too.
“But this is her sixth trip this year. All the others have been weekends or three days with girlfriends,” he vented.
“I’m truly unhappy right now with the lack of respect.”
Still, with his marriage now on the rocks, he has been left wondering whether giving his wife an ultimatum and threatening to divorce her if she traveled to Hawaii was really the wrong thing to do.
Would you be upset if your spouse planned to take a big trip without you or your kids? Why do you think his wife went to Hawaii anyway after he threatened divorce? What should he do in this situation?
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