She Recently Caught Her Sister Cheating, But She Isn’t Sure If She Should Expose Her Sister’s Affair To Her Brother-In-Law
Recently, this 30-year-old woman caught her sister cheating on her husband, 49, with another man, 40.
Understandably, she was stunned.
She always viewed her sister and her husband’s marriage as a long-lasting love and a relationship she admired.
Her sister and her husband have been together for the last 15 years, and from the outside, it seemed like they were still deeply in love with one another, and they always seemed to treat each other with respect and kindness.
After catching her sister cheating, she felt intense fury and anguish because she views her brother-in-law as an older brother figure. Plus, her brother-in-law has been a wonderful support system for her sister when she has gone through mental health struggles. He was her shoulder to lean on, and he never took issue with taking on this immense and important responsibility.
Once she learned of her sister’s cheating, she questioned her about it, but her sister lied and tried to pretend that nothing was going on.
“I told her that she was pathetic, and now she felt good about herself; after her husband nursed her back to health, she is repaying him by cheating on him. I told her I was going to expose her, and she was begging me and crying, telling me I didn’t understand. ‘Please don’t hurt us. You will be hurting my husband more than you hurt me,'” she said.
Several days later, her sister asked if she could meet up to talk. She agreed, and when she saw her sister, it looked as if she had been crying.
When they started talking, her sister told her that she had been keeping a secret about her husband from her. But she said she wanted to tell her the secret but asked her not to spread it around to anyone.
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Apparently, her sister’s husband cannot get excited enough to be intimate, so for the majority of their time together, they haven’t hooked up at all.
“I didn’t believe her, so she showed me all the texts and emails she had with her husband, her therapist, and her diary. He hasn’t touched her for almost 12 years. Her depression was because of it, and her ‘back to health’ was because of this new guy. She said that since she started hooking up with him, she has been happier and, by extension, her marriage and husband have been happier,” she explained.
In response, she asked her sister why she didn’t tell her husband the truth, and she said that she had a lot of love for her husband and she didn’t want to devastate him. She continued, saying that she was worried that her husband would feel all alone if they divorced due to her cheating, adding that he’d always told her she was the only person he had in life and that he couldn’t survive without her.
Then, her sister asked her, “‘Don’t you see that we are all happy? Please don’t hurt us.'”
Her sister met the man she’s having an affair with because of her job. The man is an entrepreneur who’s well-known in their city.
While her sister was talking about the man, she showed her text messages as evidence of who he was and what their relationship was like. He’s currently married, too, and he has three children with his wife. The man also doesn’t have an intimate relationship with his wife.
A couple of days ago, her sister once again asked if they could meet up. When she showed up, her sister was with the man she was having an affair with, which was obviously a bold move.
“She looked totally broken, and he looked smug and angry, and he didn’t even want to look at me. She asked me to think of all the people who would be hurt if this came out, and she said that they would end their affair and promised never to do it again. He got upset and said, ‘Or, we could just tell everyone and stop hiding.’ She got angry and told him to be quiet,” she shared.
Now, she doesn’t know where to go from here.
Her sister told her that the reason she didn’t tell anyone about her husband’s struggles with intimacy was because he was humiliated about it. Then her sister also said that he can be controlling and envious (she has picked up on his envious nature over the years while he’s been married to her sister).
Because of his envious nature, her sister knows for certain that he would never allow her to open their marriage.
Later, her sister told her that the affair with the other man was done, and she showed her text messages as proof.
During the texting conversation, the man said that he wanted them to come forward and tell her husband the truth so that they could have a real relationship together and not have to keep it a secret anymore.
However, she doesn’t know if she believes that the affair is truly over.
The man her sister has been cheating with gave her a Cartier “love ring,” and she still has the ring. When she asked her sister why she hadn’t gotten rid of it, her sister claimed that it was because it was worth a lot of money, but she claimed that she was planning on donating it.
Her sister wears the ring on a chain and keeps it hidden under her clothing.
Even though her sister assured her that she was no longer cheating, she is still debating on telling her brother-in-law about her sister’s affair.
In her view, the whole situation is horrible, and she believes that everyone deserves to know about the affair, even if it will cause them emotional pain.
What would you do if you were in her shoes?
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