Her Ex-Boyfriend Cheated On Her With Her Sister, Got Her Sister Pregnant, And Left Her Sister, So Now That Her Sister Needs A Place To Live And Money To Support The Baby, She’s Refusing To Help Out
This 21-year-old woman and her sister, 23, had a great relationship as children. However, once they got older, envy divided them.
Her sister always did anything she could to have the same things that she had. This was illustrated clearly when her now ex-boyfriend cheated on her with her sister.
“I’ve accepted that I might not have been good enough for him and that he wanted someone else besides me,” she said.
Now, her sister is eight months pregnant with her ex-boyfriend’s baby.
Understandably, she was horrified and devastated to learn this news, and she was so sickened that she threw up.
It was awful to think that her sister was capable of doing something like this. Afterward, she blocked her sister on every social media platform.
“Her baby’s father is nowhere to be found and hasn’t been seen since the third trimester, and I know this because my mother likes to gossip a lot and lets things slip out without knowing. I told her I didn’t want to hear anything about my sister or my ex-boyfriend, but she insisted on me hearing everything,” she explained.
Another time that her mother gossiped to her, she informed her that her ex-boyfriend and her sister had been fighting over him talking with other women.
During the fight, he got physical and pushed her sister down the stairs, and she ended up with three bone fractures.
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After the abuse, her sister didn’t leave him, and she can’t comprehend her sister’s reasoning as to why.
But she acknowledged that her sister wanted to be with her ex-boyfriend while she was still dating him, and now her sister has the man she’d been chasing after.
While she and her ex were dating, he never hurt her or was in any way abusive toward her, so she doesn’t understand where this behavior came from.
Plus, her ex was violent toward her sister early on in their relationship.
But she didn’t feel bad for her sister’s situation because her ex cheated on her with her sister, and they wanted to be together. So, she kept her distance from everything.
“There was a time when she wanted to come over to my house after they had an argument, but I told her not to call me ever again. My mom called me the other day and said that my sister needs a place to stay because she can’t pay her bills and will be evicted in 30 days for failing to pay rent. She doesn’t have baby food, clothes, or anything for the baby, and she doesn’t have any money,” she shared.
In her opinion, this seemed strange, pointing out that her sister has had several months to prepare for the baby.
She assumed that her ex-boyfriend was paying the monthly expenses until he abandoned her sister.
During the conversation with her mother, they fought because she understandably rejected the idea of allowing her sister to stay at her house.
As another option, she suggested that her sister stay with her mother.
“But she said we were sisters and needed to stick together,” she continued.
Hearing this made her so furious that she hung up the phone. She was stunned that her mother would say that to her after the trauma she’d endured because of her ex-boyfriend’s and her sister’s actions.
After her then-boyfriend cheated, she struggled with her mental health and was deeply depressed. Sadly, no one in her family was there for her, yet her family was rallying around her sister.
She was even more bothered to find out that her mother provided her sister with her new phone number.
Her sister bombarded her with text messages, phone calls, and voicemails from her sister, begging her for help.
The only response she gave was within a text she sent to her sister, telling her that she should talk to her baby’s father instead of pestering her for support, making sure to point out the irony of how her sister had never cared about her.
Clearly, her sister was angry with this because she told her that she wasn’t a true sister and expressed that because she wasn’t willing to help her, she now would be in poverty.
What would you have done if you were in her shoes?
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