She Asked Her Friend To Turn Her Location Off During Hangouts Because Her Friend’s Creepy Boyfriend Keeps Following Them And Showing Up At Girl’s Nights
For five months, this woman’s friend has been dating a man who she believes is a total creep.
Throughout her friend’s entire relationship so far, her boyfriend has tried to hook up with numerous other women while pretending that she was the only woman he was dating.
Also, her friend shares her location with her boyfriend because otherwise, he calls her repeatedly because he wants to know where she is at any given time.
Recently, she and her friend went on a girls’ vacation together, and they drove to a city nearby where both of them, as well as her friend’s boyfriend, lived.
While she and her friend were out and about for the day, her friend’s phone died.
She was driving them back to the hotel, and her friend fell asleep on the car ride back.
Finally, she drove into the hotel parking lot, and before waking up her friend, she got out of the car to smoke a cigarette while making a phone call.
“I talked on the phone for about 10 to 15 minutes till I heard a weird noise in the bush behind where I was sitting (on the curb by our car). I ran back to the car, and a man climbs out of the bush, peeps his head out to look at her in the passenger’s seat, jumps in his car, and peels off,” she said.
Since they had been away from the hotel most of the day, and it was a long drive back, her friend’s phone had been dead for several hours.
Mehmed – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
She assumed that her friend’s boyfriend had been waiting in the bushes for hours because she pointed out that if he had been following them in his car on the way back to the hotel, she would have heard him drive into the parking lot.
When her friend woke up and charged her phone once they were back in their hotel room, she called her boyfriend.
“He pretended to be at home. Then, she checked his location and saw he was blocks away. He admitted it was him and said he happened to be in the area. And yes, she was stupid enough to believe that. He said he didn’t plan on being seen, so I had no reason to be uncomfortable,” she explained.
However, she acknowledged how creepy it was that he was hiding in the bushes right behind where she was sitting while she talked on the phone for nearly 15 minutes.
Unfortunately, her friend’s boyfriend’s behavior has caused some tension between her and her friend. He constantly causes issues when they try to have girls’ nights, and he always creeps her out, as well as her friend’s other friends.
Tomorrow is both her friend’s boyfriend’s birthday as well as her friend’s best friend.
Her friend is going to spend the day with her best friend since they’ve been making plans to do so for a year, and her friend’s boyfriend is furious about this.
“Her friend asked her to turn off her location so he doesn’t show up, and she refused. They plan to come back to my house after the birthday dinner, where I will inform her that she isn’t welcome unless the location is off, as he cannot pop up at my house,” she shared.
Plus, her friend’s boyfriend has made threats about hurting himself numerous times throughout their relationship, and it seems like he doesn’t think he has anything to lose.
Last week, she and her friend got together with some other friends.
While hanging out, her friend’s boyfriend called, questioning, “‘who allowed her to go out.'”
Then, he essentially followed every step they took through her friend’s location, tracked on her phone. The whole night they hung out, her friend’s boyfriend was asking why they were going to all these places or what they were doing.
Obviously, she and the rest of their friend group were terrified by this crazy behavior. They felt uncomfortable and like their friend’s boyfriend was spying on them.
They all felt conflicted because they adore their friend, but their friend’s boyfriend creeps them out.
Now, she’s wondering if it’s too much for her and her friend to ask by requesting that their friend keep her location off so that her boyfriend can’t spy on them and try to show up uninvited.
What would you do if you were in her shoes?
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