When someone goes to the great lengths of trying to destroy your life and reputation in such an outlandish way, do you owe them any compassion?
This man has a fiancée named Susan, who has a 14-year-old daughter, Jay. Tragically, Jay recently made some disgusting false accusations against him.
Luckily, he says Jay isn’t that intelligent, and what Jay said was so impossible that he was easily able to prove that to the police when they investigated the girl’s claims.
“Susan believed her and kicked me out of our apartment. The lease is in both our names. After dealing with the cops, my lawyer got a restraining order against Jay. She wasn’t allowed within 300 feet of me or my home,” he explained.
“Her dad lives two towns over, and her grandparents live in Arizona. None of her friends [who] have fathers are allowed to have her over, so she can’t stay with them.”
What he means by that last part is that all of the moms of Jay’s friends know that Jay lied about the allegations against him, and they don’t want this kid anywhere near their husbands or their sons because of it.
So, Jay has been staying with Susan’s friend, who is a single mom, while Susan has been pleading with him to drop the restraining order he filed against Jay; otherwise, she will have to find somewhere else to live.
Well, his engagement is already called off, his relationship is over, and he would love for Susan to move out since this is not a salvageable situation.
Susan’s name is on the lease along with his, so he can’t force her to leave. Susan has a job and can easily afford to get a different apartment on her own.
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He and Susan have been living in separate rooms in the meantime, and their lease is up in July, which means his living arrangement will continue to be super awkward unless Susan finds somewhere else to live.
“I can afford the lease without her, and right now I want her out. I know that as a mother, she had to believe her kid, but she didn’t even think before kicking me out,” he added.
“I am done with her and her kid, and I want them gone. If she has to move because of the restraining order, that’s all good in my books.”
And in regard to the false allegations that Jay made against him that are literally impossible? Well, Jay said that he came home in the middle of a workday to do things to her while Susan was also at work.
The thing is, he is working on a construction crew for an energy plant that is highly secure to the point where he has to essentially jump through hoops just to get to work every day.
“That means I park at my company’s office and I am bused to work along with my coworkers. The job site has insane levels of security,” he continued.
“I cannot get an Uber or cab to pick me up there. In case of emergency, the company has ambulances on site. And firetrucks. We are under constant surveillance. I think the only place without it is the bathrooms. No guarantee.”
I think he should try to talk to his landlord and see if he can get his name or Susan’s taken off the lease. This is a strange circumstance, so the landlord might be willing to do that.
Oh, and for the record, no, I don’t think he was a jerk for getting a restraining order against a girl who tried to ruin his life; he needs to protect himself!
What advice do you have for him?
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