She’s Wondering If Bringing Her Baby To Her Infertile Cousin’s Wedding Might Be Rude Of Her To Do
A woman has three children with her husband, and they are 12-years-old, 6-years-old, and 3-months-old.
Her cousin is getting married, and when she received the invitation to her cousin’s wedding, she did not have her youngest child yet; she was still pregnant.
Initially, her 12-year-old and 6-year-old kids were allowed to attend the wedding, and it was supposed to happen last fall, in November.
Due to everything that happened during 2020, her cousin pushed her wedding to this month.
“My aunt (cousin’s mom) asked me to re-RSVP for this new date right after I had the baby,” she explained.
“I did so, and put down that myself, husband, and all 3 children, including the baby, would be attending.”
Well, the sister of her cousin who is getting married reached out to her insisting she’s a terrible person for attending the wedding with her baby too.
It turns out that her cousin who is getting married has PCOS and other health complications that have left her infertile, and her cousin’s sister thinks that bringing the baby to the wedding is throwing the bride’s infertility right in her face.
The other issue that her cousin’s sister has with the baby coming too is that many of her family members haven’t had a chance to even see her baby yet.
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Her cousin’s sister further feels that her baby will steal the show away from her cousin who is getting married.
Her cousin’s sister wasn’t exactly nice when relaying all of this to her. “She called me selfish, callous, and even said that I would be being vindictive since they didn’t go to my baby sprinkle,” she said.
“I ended up hanging up on her after this went on for several minutes.”
Right after she hung up the phone, she sent a text to her aunt to see if this really was how everyone felt about her baby coming to the wedding along with her older children.
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She figured there was a chance her cousin’s sister was simply being impossible since she does tend to have this kind of personality regardless of situations that arise in the family.
Her aunt really did not give her a single thing to go off of, and she’s still left confused.
She would just reach out to her cousin directly to talk about her feelings, though there’s a problem with this; her cousin made it clear to speak to her aunt about all things that pertain to her wedding since her aunt is the one doing all the planning.
“I don’t have any childcare options to leave my 3-month-old for most of the day to travel across the state for this wedding, as my mom is the only person who babysits and she is also attending the wedding,” she concluded.
She has decided she will be taking the baby too, even though it might get her in trouble with both of her cousins.
How would you deal with this?
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