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Her mom and her boyfriend have a group of friends that also work in the building, and she feels completely excluded from that.
The second thing that really stresses her out is that her mom asks her boyfriend to do so many favors or things around the house for her that it’s now becoming the biggest priority to her boyfriend.
Her boyfriend will skip out on plans they previously made to help her mom, and he will never say no to her mom. He always rushes to her mom’s aid, no matter what her mom needs.
“I feel like people think I’m crazy/psycho/insecure when I explain these things, but to me, insecurity comes from female friends/unrelated girls that want your man, rather than your own mother,” she explained.
“My own mum shouldn’t make me feel insecure. There are many layers to it but these are what stand out the most. It feels like my mum is jealous of my relationship.”
“I am the happiest I’ve ever been with him but my mum is a certain type of person that if she isn’t happy but sees those around her are, she has to ruin it.”
“I am uncomfortable that she sees him as her friend and not my boyfriend and I am SO FED UP of her crossing boundaries I have set.”
How would you feel in this situation?
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