Chip Chick
While she does admit things with her boyfriend haven’t always been perfect, she thought they had a solid relationship.
She even made plans to move in with him this year, and other aspects of their life have been going great; she started working a wonderful job last year, and a month ago, her boyfriend got promoted, and he also got a huge pay increase.
“Then, it happened again,” she said. “He met a coworker at his new department and fell for her, then, he proceeded to break up with me – even though we had plans to move in together – and ask her out.”
“This time, unfortunately, the girl said yes and they had a couple of dates. As I imagined (or rooted for), it didn’t go so well, so now he’s asking to get back together, again.”
“I still love him and think about our plans of moving in together all the time, I look at the places we were searching online and we also had bought some stuff that we would need.”
In the weeks since her boyfriend dumped her, she’s been not doing so well at her job because she’s been so upset, and her boss even issued her a warning.
Her life without her boyfriend in it is not great, but she’s not positive that she can forgive and forget for a second time.
It’s crazy to her that they were together for close to an entire decade and then he decided to pull this on her again.
“I feel that if we get back together he’ll think he can always do this to me every time he feels attracted to another woman,” she continued.
“However, if we don’t get back together I’ll lose the love of my life and probably my job because I cannot focus on anything else.”
What do you think she should do? Take him back, or let him go for good?
