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“I did specify that it wasn’t her, but I couldn’t do it and she said alright and hung up.”
Well, right after that, her ex-husband called her. Her ex berated her over the phone, saying that she was “unreasonable,” “rude,” and “unprofessional.”
Her ex wanted her to put their problems behind them and make the cake. She insisted that she could choose to not work with someone for any reason, and then she hung up the phone.
She does know her feelings about her ex and his cheating on her did influence her decision to not make the gender reveal cake for him and his girlfriend.
While she does feel justified in her feelings about what happened to her, she’s wondering if she’s allowed to do what she did or if it makes her, well, a jerk.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“First, congratulations on your babies! Second, I agree with your stance on refusing service to them. How narcissistic of your ex! This is epic “adding insult to injury.”
“See, me, being the bitter person I would be in this situation, would offer to make it, but instead of blue or pink, the inside would be black…or full of shrimp or something gross.”
“This is why I wouldn’t be good as a baker, or an ex.”
“You handled this beautifully and with class. You’re a wonderful co-parent and role model to your babies.”
