She Was Absolutely Positive That Her Fiancé Was Cheating On Her After He Started Doing One Thing Differently

DiyBreakUp is a massively popular Tik Tok account that shares messy dating stories, asks for advice in video comments, and gives women a platform to share the ways they’ve been lied to and gaslit.

One of DiyBreakUp’s threads featured a woman whose fiancé came home one day and “felt like a stranger.”

She shared in her video that “the moment I should’ve known my ex-fiancé was cheating on me was the moment he started kissing differently.”

When she confronted him about it, he said she was nitpicking and trying to start a fight. As it turns out, this was a classic gaslighting tactic and made her feel paranoid instead of justified in her suspicions.

Still, she concluded that a person doesn’t pick up a new kissing style unless they’re messing around on the side.

She made a follow-up video highlighting the sad humor of the whole situation. Using the audio from the Netflix series Squid Games, it says “red light” with the caption, “having doubts about your fianceé.”

Then, “green light,” captioned, “finding out he has a double life … calling off your wedding.”

When she told her friends that she’d canceled the wedding, they had a range of responses, which she highlighted in a funny video.

TikTok; pictured above is this woman in her first video explaining how she knew her fiancé was cheating

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One called her fianceé a “psychopath,” another told her to “sell the ring,” and everyone agreed that the group needed a therapeutic trip to Vegas. A commenter even replied, “Girlfriends are the best friends.”

When folks questioned why she didn’t leave him sooner, she replied in the comments, “He was really manipulative and I was afraid to leave at first.”

She expanded on the details of their toxic relationship in another video, saying that he threatened her and was “always lying and manipulating situations so I was always confused and doubting myself.”

Since they were getting into fights more frequently, she eventually suggested seeing a couple’s therapist.

But when he insisted on going alone, she thought it was fine—until she found out he didn’t have a therapist and was just going to see another girl! 

So what’s the takeaway from her experience? Always trust your intuition.

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