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She has a tiny little wallet that she can easily hide in her boot, and although she attempted hiding her credit card and then handing it to her boyfriend, insisting that he let her pay, he just refused.
Another hurdle she’s encountered is that servers will hand the check right to her boyfriend, not even giving her an opportunity to slide her credit card in there first.
“I’m not someone that’s gonna argue and be like LET ME PAY, but I also don’t want him to feel like I refuse to pay or I’m using him,” she said.
“It’s been 5 months and I don’t know how to start paying for things. I feel if next time we go out if I’m like “no, I got this” he’s going to think that I’m not interested in the relationship anymore or something’s wrong.”
“We started dating in winter so the options for “activity dates” are low, but even those he’s always taken charge of the decisions – like if you have to pay per time or game. He takes charge of talking to people so he’s in front so he ends up paying.”
She’s wondering what to do here and how she can pay for things so her boyfriend doesn’t feel taken advantage of.
Do you have a solution for her in this situation?
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