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She Feels Like She’s Really Boring And It’s Ruining Her Dating Life Because Guys Aren’t Interested In Her

“I don’t know,” she continued. “I go to work. I come home and play with my dog who is my world, and binge true crime docs with my roomie.”

“I then do some yoga, journal, and go to sleep. That is my routine every day. I’ve recently started aerial fitness, which is really fun, but it’s only something I do once a week.”

That’s pretty much her life, although occasionally she will go outside of her routine and swim, make crafts, bake, or read, though that’s not on her normal list of things she enjoys.

“I’m boring,” she added. “Guys don’t want to date that. I’ve tried to change myself but IDK how. I hate who I am and my personality has nothing to offer.”

She’s wondering how she can accept herself while putting herself out there.

One person helpfully pointed out, “Just because someone says you are boring does not actually mean you are. In his personal opinion, you are, but that is what it is. An opinion.”

“Just focus on yourself for a bit. Regain some confidence. Try a new style you wanted to try. Do things you love.”

You can read the original post on Reddit here.

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