He Met Up With His Ex To Have Dinner With Her, But Then Walked Out And Left Her There Alone

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dianagrytsku - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purpose only, not the actual person

Ending a relationship is extremely difficult. Sometimes it’s impossible to exit the situation with a clean break.

A man had one last dinner with his ex-girlfriend before moving out of their place, and let’s just say it did not go well.

The man gives some context on his former relationship at the beginning; he and his girlfriend were together for three and a half years.

They broke up about six months before he could move out of their place together. During those six months, his ex started seeing someone else in a different city.

The man says that this new guy she’s seeing contributed to their relationship ending. He made it clear to his ex that he doesn’t want to know anything about this new guy before he moves out.

They decided to walk to a local restaurant for dinner before he moves out. They wanted to try and stay friends, so they figured outings like this would help.

The night started out fine, but she started mentioning some shady things after they finished eating.

His ex started mentioning how she had reservations at a very expensive restaurant.

“I know she doesn’t do this stuff alone, but I ask if she is going by herself,” he explained.

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She told him no and didn’t say anything else about who would be taking her to dinner. But then, she started dropping hints about someone coming to visit her later in the month. The man knew she wasn’t talking about one of her friends.

Frustrated and annoyed by his ex’s shady behavior, he started messing around on his phone. She began doing the same. After five minutes of them both on their phones, she made a weird comment.

“I was going to say something mean but decided not to,” she said.

The man responded with, “Then don’t say it.”

They began to argue, and his ex mentioned how she noticed him acting weird after telling him about her future date plans. He told her he was annoyed and didn’t want to engage with her mean behavior.

“I don’t know how to talk with her past this point,” he continued.

He got up from the table and left the restaurant. After she met up with him back at their home, he apologized.

His ex didn’t quite accept the apology, telling him that it was one of the worst things he had done to her and that he needed to “let her go.”

“In my mind, this means that she doesn’t see us ever being in a relationship again,” he added.

The man is still feeling guilty over how he reacted during the dinner, and his ex still has not apologized for the things she said.

Perhaps this dinner shouldn’t have happened in the first place!

“Why are you two even going to dinner together?” commented one person. “Just make a clean break, it’ll save you both the embarrassment and exhaustion.”

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