Her Boyfriend Drunkenly Kissed Another Woman And Came Clean Right After, But She’s Still Considering Ending Their Five-Year Relationship

shunevich - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
shunevich - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This woman has been dating her boyfriend for five years, and they were even planning to get engaged later this year.

However, she is now second-guessing her relationship after her boyfriend admitted to getting drunk and kissing another woman.

It all began when they were invited out to a club for his friend’s birthday. And usually, he actually doesn’t like to go out without her.

But she found out that she urgently needed to go out of town and, by the time she got back, she was going to be exhausted. So, she told her boyfriend that she would be too tired to go to the club later that night.

At that point, her boyfriend reportedly said that he just wanted to stay home with her and watch Netflix together.

“I told him to go because our friend would be upset if we both had to miss the birthday party,” she recalled.

That’s why her boyfriend wound up attending the celebration. While he was there, he ultimately kissed another woman that they see socially from time to time. She doesn’t think of the other woman as a friend but more so as an acquaintance.

According to her boyfriend, the other woman also initiated the kiss. Then, her boyfriend kissed back before he eventually backed off.

Anyway, as soon as he got home from the birthday party, he told her about what happened. He also apologized and claimed to be extremely ashamed.

shunevich – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

Then, she decided to move out for the time being just to process her thoughts and figure out what to do.

“He’s been contacting me, begging me to come home, but I’ve told him to respect my boundaries and give me space,” she said.

The more she thinks about what happened, the more she wonders whether this situation was bad enough to end their five-year relationship, too.

However, her sister and her friends have all claimed that her boyfriend clearly loves her. So, they all think that she should just forgive him.

“But my sister and friends are making me feel like I’m being a [jerk] to him and overreacting,” she vented.

That’s why she doesn’t know whether considering breaking up with her boyfriend over the drunken kiss would be justified or if it really would just make her a jerk.

How would you feel in her shoes? Is it a good sign that her boyfriend immediately told her as soon as he got home? Or does that not matter since her trust was broken? How would you handle this?

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