Her Boyfriend Told His Son In Front of Her That She No Longer Wants To Take Care of Him, And The Little Boy Started Crying
This young woman has a boyfriend who is 30, and her boyfriend has a son who is now 6. She began dating her boyfriend when his son was just 2.
The mom of her boyfriend’s son never wanted her to be a part of the little boy’s life, and she admits that she has never been on the same page as her.
Initially, everything was going well, and her boyfriend’s son spent every other week with them. But, now her boyfriend’s son spends every day with them, as his mom got arrested a year ago.
“In the beginning, we divided the chores and child care equally,” she explained. “4 months ago, my boyfriend got an opportunity to work on 3 projects, which could lead him to a big promotion.”
“He’s always working late, either from home or in the office. I’ve been doing all the chores and childcare since then.”
“I cook, clean, get his son ready in the morning, and drop him off at daycare. The only thing my boyfriend has to do is get his son ready for bed.”
Last Friday, she sat her boyfriend down and said that starting on Monday, she will no longer be caring for his son.
Her boyfriend got really mad at her, and he said that since they are a family, they need to rely on one another for support.
Her boyfriend mentioned that he needs her in this moment, and he asked her to please be patient.
Miljan Živković – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual child
She just told her boyfriend that since this is his son, not hers, he needs to step up and finally be taking care of him the majority of the time.
“I’ve been doing all of it, and it’s not fair since he is his father,” she said. “He then went into the other room, got his son, and told his son that, “Mommy says she doesn’t want to take care of you anymore” while pointing at me.”
“I said to not call me that because I’m not his mother, and his son started crying. I, of course, comforted and apologized to his son because it wasn’t my intention to upset him. My boyfriend is still mad and has been taking care of his son, but won’t speak to me.”
“I didn’t think this was unreasonable, he is the parent and needs to do more of the child care. And also, the mom doesn’t even want me to be involved in child care, so I’m already overstepping her wishes.”
Her own sister is on her boyfriend’s side, and her sister believes she’s wrong because she has created a family with her boyfriend, and he’s really relying on her to help right now while his job is more demanding.
Her sister also pointed out that it doesn’t matter what the little boy’s mom wants since she’s in jail and irrelevant for the time being. She doesn’t see how she was being unreasonable at all in this scenario, but she’s still curious if she was.
Do you think what she did was wrong?
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