His Dream Family Shattered After He Found Out His Fiancée Cheated On Him With Her Coworker And Their Son Isn’t His
This 31-year-old man has a fiancée who is 33, and they have been together for more than 8 years now.
His fiancée lives with him in his apartment, and they have been making plans for their future together, such as how many children they should have and at what point they should begin building a house.
Around two years ago, they sadly suffered a miscarriage, so when his fiancée became pregnant again, he was overjoyed. He really wanted a baby, and when their baby was born, he cried happy tears.
The birth of their baby was the best thing that has ever happened to him, and he felt like he and his fiancée were living in a dream.
But then, he received a call from the wife of one of his fiancée’s coworkers. This woman told him that his fiancée is nothing but a cheater, and he honestly could not believe it.
He confronted his fiancée, who assured him that she was only really great friends with this male coworker, which she promised had made this man’s wife envious of her.
He had no reason not to believe what his fiancée was saying to him, especially since she never made him feel like he could not trust her in all the years that they have been together.
He just asked his fiancée to stop being friends with her coworker, as it was clearly causing stress and strain on this man’s marriage, and he felt it was hurting them too.
“As it turns out, they continued their friendship in a secret way. I was very ignorant until that man’s wife sent me photos of their chats and that they secretly were meeting at the parks and for lunch,” he explained.
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“The chats involved kisses emojis, and many “too friendly things.” When we were on vacation with our baby, she even texted to him, “6 days left until we meet…DURING OUR VACATION WITH A BABY.”
“I am so devastated and broken into pieces. I then became suspicious as my son (1-year-old) does not look like me but looks more like that “coworker.” I bought a DNA test, and it is not my child. I love him so so much, but my dream family is shattered, I stopped building our dream home, everything stopped.”
And here he is, keeping his own secret, too, since his fiancée has no idea he even had a DNA test done and that he’s not the father of their baby.
He really isn’t sure how to address this with his fiancée at all, and she and their baby are still living in his apartment like nothing is wrong.
His life is ruined; he feels that he flushed 8 years of his life down the drain, and he feels awful for a son who isn’t really his.
He doesn’t want this baby to have to grow up without a dad, but he’s not this baby’s dad. He hasn’t told a single soul in his life about what his fiancée has done, as he’s afraid his parents especially will think he’s disappointing.
What do you think he should do, and what is the best way for him to confront his fiancée about all of this?
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