She’s Feeling Uneasy Since Her Boyfriend Has A Bunch Of Female Friends And Recently Stayed Out With A New One Until 3:00 A.M.
This 23-year-old woman has been with her boyfriend, who is also 23, for about four years. And throughout their relationship, he has always been extremely sweet.
But, one thing about her boyfriend has been particularly bothering her.
“And I am not sure if this is really a deal breaker or something I should seriously consider in my decision if I want to be with him for the rest of my life,” she prefaced.
Apparently, her boyfriend is just extremely nice to everybody– including other women.
And over the past few years, he has been in communication with a bunch of women– whether at school or at work– because her boyfriend’s field is pretty female-dominated.
That’s why her boyfriend now has numerous female friends. And she claimed to be okay with that.
More recently, however, her boyfriend became friends with a new girl from work, and he claimed to enjoy hanging out with the woman. Still, she pointed out how her boyfriend and the woman really have not known each other for long.
Yet, the pair recently went out alone for drinks, and she doesn’t think that her boyfriend did a good job communicating the plan to her.
So, that caused her to be extremely anxious as she waited for her boyfriend to get home until 3:00 a.m. And she honestly just feels very weird about the fact that her boyfriend hung out with his female coworker for such a long time.
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“But I just brushed it off as him being a student and wanting to go out,” she recalled.
To her surprise, though, her boyfriend then revealed how he planned to hang out with his coworker again. Plus, since the woman is an exchange student, her boyfriend wanted to bring the woman outside of their city in order to show her around.
After hearing that, the plan immediately sounded like a date to her. And she has been pretty upset about it.
She has tried to tell her boyfriend on numerous occasions that his having so many female friends sort of makes her uncomfortable, too. She also added that she would prefer if her boyfriend at least had some guy friends as well.
“But he always tells me that I should trust him and that he is just in a female-dominated field, so it’s hard to find male friends,” she vented.
Still, while she doesn’t want to ban her boyfriend from doing anything with his friend just because she is a female, she really does not feel comfortable with their plans to go out of the city.
So, she’s now been left wondering how to best handle this issue with her boyfriend.
Can you understand why her boyfriend having so many female friends makes her feel unsettled? Do you think it’s weird that he stayed out until 3:00 a.m. with a new friend who he barely knows? Would you be okay with that? How should she handle this situation?
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