She Doesn’t Want Her Fiancé’s Brother At Her Wedding Since He Always Flirts With Her And She’s Worried He’ll Do Something
This 26-year-old woman is going to be marrying her incredible 28-year-old fiancé next spring, and they have been together for five years.
Now, back when she was 18, she went on a date with a guy the same age as her. They went out to have dinner, and she really liked him a lot.
She had an excellent time on their date, and when it was over, she sent him a text to let him know how she felt and that she would love to go out with him again.
He simply replied with thanks, he had a nice time on their date, too, but did not feel a connection and wouldn’t like to see her again as it wasn’t fair to her.
She liked this guy so much that this broke her heart, but she had no choice but to move on.
Three years after that date, she met her fiancé. They had an instant connection and fell in love fast. Six months into dating her fiancé, she had dinner with his family, and she met his brother.
It dawned on her then that his brother was the guy she had gone on that date with. She told her fiancé about it, and he didn’t care.
She also decided to text his brother to say that she had no clue they were related but that she didn’t want their past to ruin her current relationship.
Her fiancé’s brother mentioned they were alright, and so she figured she had nothing to worry about from there.
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“However, he has continually flirted with me,” she explained. “When we meet him for dinner, he always flirts, saying stuff like telling me my dress looks nice, that I look great, or telling me a specific thing on the menu looks like something I would like.”
“He always does this in front of my husband, who has not said a word about this. He also tries to make me jealous all the time, like when we all are out with his family, he sometimes brings a girl with him if they have been dating for some time, and he will always kiss her on the cheek, talk with her all the time and flirting with her.”
“I have kept my mouth shut about this so as not to cause anything bad between him and my fiancé, but with wedding planning and sending out invites, I just had to say something. I told him I don’t want his brother there because his brother always flirts with me and tries to make me jealous. My fiancé looked dumbfounded and asked when this happens if his brother does this stuff when he is in the bathroom or simply not looking.”
She told her fiancé no, and listed out all of the instances she could recall where his brother flirted with her or came onto her.
When she was done, her fiancé literally laughed and wanted to know if she was ok in the head or if she was joking.
She got mad at her fiancé and said that if he had a hard time seeing how absolutely gross his own brother was, then her fiancé is hardly who she thought he was.
“We have barely talked since this, I got a text from his brother saying that he was sorry if he ever made me feel uncomfortable and that he had no intention to make me feel that way,” she said.
“My fiancé is still mad at me…I just want my happiest day to be my happiest day, and it can’t be that if I have to worry about his brother doing something.”
She’s curious if it was wrong of her to want to exclude her fiancé’s brother from her upcoming wedding.
What do you think?
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