He Told A Woman He’d Been Casually Hooking Up With That He Wasn’t Interested In A Relationship And Got Accused Of Being The Kind Of Guy Who Ditches Women After He Gets What He Wants
Two months ago, this 25-year-old man met a woman, who is 23, and they’ve been hooking up ever since. But, from the start, he made it crystal clear that he was not looking for a relationship. Rather, he just wanted someone he could hook up with.
“She agreed,” he recalled, “And she stated that was what she wanted, too.”
Yet, while things were fine in the beginning, the woman has since begun blowing up his phone way more often. Apparently, she just wants to hang out– not hook up.
He was okay with that at first, too, and hung out with her one time– thinking that perhaps they could become real friends or friends with benefits.
“But the entire time, she was acting like I was her boyfriend, not her friend,” he revealed.
On top of that, one thing the woman said really rubbed him the wrong way. At the end of their hangout, when he was about to head home for the night, she told him, “I love you.” And that left him feeling super uncomfortable.
That’s why he felt forced to sit her down and explain how he really wasn’t interested in having a relationship with her. Well, she admitted to being aware of that, but she also claimed that she was interested in something more with him.
So, he finally put his foot down and said he didn’t think they could continue hooking up with each other since he had no intention of starting a relationship with her.
This made the woman start to tear up, too. Then, she went from seeming sad to being offended and angry.
kiuikson – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
“She told me I was one of those men who only get what they want out of a woman and ditch them after,” he explained.
He couldn’t stand listening to that, either, so he just left afterward. But, ever since, the woman hasn’t stopped bombarding his phone with texts. Some messages have been cursing him out, while others begged him to give her a second chance.
This ultimately pushed him to block the woman, and now, he honestly feels like a bit of a jerk.
“But, at the same time, I felt like I had to put a stop to it,” he vented.
And now, in the wake of the whole situation, he’s been left wondering if telling the woman that he wasn’t interested in a relationship was really so wrong.
Do you think he was leading the woman on, or did he make his intentions clear from the start? Did he have a right to enforce his own boundaries?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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