It’s so funny to me when people mess up and then manage to muster up the audacity to act like someone else is to blame. And things get even weirder when a spouse cheats, then takes it out on the person they happily kicked to the curb without a second thought.
Two months ago, this man’s wife cheated on him with some random guy she wound up meeting. They were still very much committed to their marriage and trying to mend their difficulties when his wife decided to be unfaithful.
Then, he ended up texting a woman whose child is in the exact same class as his child (whom he shares with his wife). He figured it was time to shoot his shot since his wife had clearly moved on to another man.
His wife actually invited this woman over so their kids could have a playdate, and his wife and this woman did hit it off. This woman mentioned to him and his wife that she had left her baby daddy and was single.
“Now mind you, this is ALL I knew about my wife’s and her relationship, I did not know that they had been texting each other a bit since then,” he explained.
“Fast forward, I text this woman after two months of our breakup because why not, I thought she looked good, and that we could probably just have a good time.”
“After having met her, we both developed feelings for each other, to which we tried to end it, but couldn’t. The woman I met then proceeded to text my soon-to-be ex-wife that she has feelings for me and that she is sorry, but she can’t really ignore them.”
His wife is currently spending alternating weeks with the man she had an affair with. She actually confessed to him that she’s in love with this guy two to three weeks after they split up.
They have not yet sold their home, but his wife is renting an apartment for her and her new man, and she’s already all in on planning a brand-new future with this guy.
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She’s introduced their children to him, she’s plastered photos of him all over social media, including snaps of this guy holding his kids’ hands and kind of acting like a dad.
But since his wife found out about him sleeping with this other woman, she’s gone nuclear and accused him of being a jerk.
She moved on first, flaunted it online, and somehow, he’s the bad guy for wanting to move on, too. Can you say hypocrite? He should tell her to kick rocks and stop worrying about her opinion or feelings, since clearly she already walked all over him and didn’t think twice about it.
What advice do you have for him?
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By Bre Avery Zacharski
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